A S3X Therapist with 31 years of experience told me something that completely shocked me
She said,
"You can actually grow your sausages 🍆 by doing these things"
The first one is:
One of the biggest mistakes men make on dates is trying to prove they’re interesting.
You can see it happening in real time.
He starts name-dropping, talking about his accomplishments, trying to make sure she knows he’s successful.
And somehow the date gets worse
Listen:
I had weak erections at 29.
No porn addiction.
No smoking.
Lifted heavy.
But 5 silent habits were quietly reducing my blood flow.
This is how I reversed them. I wake up hard every morning.
6. Drama follows her into every environment.
One difficult friendship proves almost nothing. A pattern across friends, coworkers, relatives, neighbours, and former partners deserves more attention. If everyone eventually becomes an enemy, consider whether there is a common factor. Listen to how she talks about people she once claimed to love. Someone who repeatedly creates chaos everywhere may eventually bring the same pattern into your relationship.
5. Loyalty disappears whenever opportunities appear.
Commitment means very little if it survives only because nobody better has approached yet. Secret conversations, hidden flirting, keeping former partners available, or changing behaviour around attractive people can slowly destroy trust. Loyalty should exist without surveillance. The strongest sign of character is often what someone chooses when they know their partner would probably never find out.