Charles

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@1800thrasher @Doki42040 Ive seen some of that stuff before. Im a white sub and Ive been dominated by Black Dommes before. They never once used race at all. I see this bnwo stuff. I haven't really dived that deep into all of that. There are beautiful Dommes from all walks of life, all racesin my opinion.

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@Doki42040 Thats another issue I do have with the so called fetish industry/community. I've seen so much racism that gets disguised as "fetish" is pathetic. Sorry you have to deal with that. Its already enough to be open about being a sub. then some human trash wants to throw racism in too.

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@RuinedByLana I think my issue is trust with people in general.Ive had mostly good experiences with Dommes but some that weren't good at all. Safe words being ignored and that kind of stuff. I don't mind telling someone how I feel but will they even care? Some people just don't care to hear it

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@JaneKampen7743 @Anti_findom_BR o yeah. I've been at this a long time being a sub. I really tarted getting involved back in 2001 going to fetish parties. I see nothing wrong with being a sub. But I am aware there are people who have and will try to exploit my submissive side for only profit. so I am cautious

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@trixdominavc @Anti_findom_BR why do Dommes feel like they have to always be evil and harm someone> just because some subs want that, doesn't mean all subs do. Is it just for the money? the using human beings as trash? does it get you all off? I'm just curious what makes a Domme want to do this to.

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@Allah7yys @Anti_findom_BR Ive seen stuff like that before. that's the kind of stuff that makes me sick to my stomach of this so called industry. I don't feel shame for being a sub. I don't like how this industry treats subs like yesterdays trash. that's always been my issue and still is.

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@JaneKampen7743 @Anti_findom_BR I started this page over 14 years ago because I am a sub and I was promoting femdom videos I was in. I don't do videos but I still just keep this profile. Im still a sub, just not much of a Findom because of the hateful things Ive read. I do prefer a Domme with a heart

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@Anti_findom_BR Your doing a good service by doing this. By treating Findom as an addiction is the best way to treatment. I quit alcohol awhile ago. I've learned what Ive used in AA and applied it to Findom. It has worked well. these findommes don't care about the guys sending them money at all.

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@Anti_findom_BR I quit findoma few years ago. Haven't looked back and I don't miss it. It didn't anything for me at all. Im already on a limited budget and sending money to people who just use me and Ill never do anything with them in real life. what a waste of time, money and energy.

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@JaneKampen7743 @Anti_findom_BR like a drugdealer into a rehab looking for customers. that kind of hunt

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@Allah7yys @Anti_findom_BR well, I think its fair to say that when a "Domme" wants to take all of the guys money and Ive seen a few Dommes about how they target poorer subs on purpose. Whether that's serious or not,the idea that humans are treated like yesterdays garbage is enough to make any sane man qui.

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@DrLovejoyShow hmm, I saw some local event that does that. maybe I should check into that. I've done submission in public spaces. But not nude. I guess Im shy in that area still. Even though I've been in way too many fetish films as a sub for years. I couldn't do it front of cameras either

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@AmyTherapy2021 they were already using guys to answer their messages. Now its not even a human responding. Just a catfish bot. I see those and instantly delete. bye bye right into the trash bin.

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@Anti_findom_BR Ive been a sub for a long time. I don't think theres any shame in that. But sadly there are predators will try to exploit submission and kindness as weakness. I do real life stuff. I shot videos for femdom videos for years as a sub. I started a Munch. I've been to fetish events.

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@lisa_domina11 @Anti_findom_BR like anything, moderation is key. too many people cant seem to understand that. Those are all addictions. I've quit a lot of those addictions too. That's all Findom is. Just people looking for their dopamine fix. I prefer real life. I was in femdom videos for years.

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@Anti_findom_BR this post got a lot of attention. there's a lot of truth being said. I don't really do Findom. I don't mind paying for a genuine service. But there's so many bots, cat fishes, scammers and just really horrible heartless humans just looking to scam money.

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@princessspiaxx its sure used that way alot

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@ItsMaraQuinn thats why as a sub, I've just chosen to remain single. If this is all being a sub means to so many "Dommes", then what's even the long term point? there is none. Im a human first. I have to take care of my own well being because no one else will. Just try to take advantage of it.

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@DearMissMargot @thesilentrouge hmmm,what happens to the low income guy? do they just become homeless and starve? just curious how that works

[Charles @SubGuy6682]

@thesilentrouge normalize caring about subs mental and emotional health too