Use condoms
Use lubricants when needed
Sex is not done to a woman
Women don’t “give” sex to a man
Make sure the feeling is mutual
Coercion is rape
Don’t “convince” anyone to have sex with them(I specifically didn’t mention any gender)
Don’t participate in sex for favor
Most importantly, have sex BECAUSE YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX, not because it’s a duty as husband or wife or as girlfriend and boyfriend just BECAUSE YOU are horny. Sex is not an obligation.
@scottdasnake@TDeisine Lmao cheers to you that still have that mentality that has eaten you up that because you’re a male makes you more superior than female because they don’t have same blood running through our bodies , whatever makes you sleep well at night tho
@scottdasnake@TDeisine I don’t know of many Nigerians but I don’t belive that, cause I can just lust after his body and not give a fuck about him and I moved ahead but a man can do that and not seen as broken but I’m broken cause I wanted have a nice time too cause I’m a stone Yh 😂🤣
Nigerian men goes abroad and quickly learns about consent but before they realize it they would have been charged with sexual assault and thrown in jail, the lack of consent in Nigeria is so awful that they don’t know it’s an inappropriate thing to do.
You see them getting shocked and surprised when they are arrested over there from sexual misconduct cos over here it’s a free rein for them with no one blinking eyes.
Pregnancy can kill her.
C-sections can scar her forever.
Postpartum can destroy her mentally. But sure, keep calling it “just nine months.” Your lack of empathy is terrifying.
Imagine an elderly woman in my estate saw me when I was going to work this morning and said “ I’m just a wicked and unforgiving soul, that despite how she begged me over a pedophile I still made him ended up in jail”, I told her if God forgives I don’t forgive pedophiles and R@pist and I pray They prey on her grandchildren and last daughter “
Ive come to know that If you’re fighting for a women be prepared to fight some women too, not every woman supports other women ,some will defend bad behavior of men,shame women, silence other women or help keep harmful traditions that hurts women.
Some women spend years preparing to be chosen but forget to prepare themselves.
They learn how to love someone else but never learn how to love themselves.
They build a home with someone but never build their own foundation.
A man can be part of your life, but he should never be the only thing holding your life together.
Become someone you can rely on first.