Now im embarrassed... there's another park, and great one with lit basketball courts, like 0.25 miles behind my house through the woods I didn't know existed. Again I've lived there 10 years.
You may not be able to determine someone's heart or mind right away necessarily, but if their actions kind of paint a picture, you should at least have some questions.
I blocked the one that said I was soulless and they hated me of course... but why they feel that way? I might understand if it was an inflammatory post, but I was just talking about some bball goals in a park without lights!