Sid Visjes

Mostly antisocial always antisexist
They deem me mad 'cause ill not sell my days for gold and I deem them mad 'cause they think my days have a price
☆Anarchie♡

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

I dont have much to say, but i want to share with you all that despite my many flaws im working each day to become a better person. Eventhough i lost the love of my life cuz of my own dumb behavior. Im so sorry that i pushed her away. She deserved better than that

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

@Offbeatme @renatevdzee think you should know this

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

In the clusterfuck that i call life. I had 3 years of ultimate hapiness. Never in my 37 years on this earth i felt more complete than in the 3 years that i spend with you. I love your imperfect perfection. And i always did and i always will love you. You are a survivor Arienh

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

Its the illusion of the free will my love. And i know you wont listen to me but i cant look in the mirror knowing this is happening and then just walk away. I promised you i would love you for atleast 61 years and damnit i keep that promise.

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

Please dont let them make you a victim again. Some of the people you "connected" or "bonded" with in the last year are not honest towards you and they use your soft, trusting and gentle nature to push you back in bdsm and kink

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

But im worried sick about you and the road back into the kinkscene youre currenly moving on. Youll only find fake validation in bdsm, more abusers and more rapists and youll end up getting hurt again. Please talk to your sister instead or maybe to 'blackbird' ♡

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

It feels like its all my fault. My sweet sweet Arienh, im so sorry. But please understand that we were both triggered n defaulted back to trauma settings. We should never started to argue with eachother 144km seperated. I know you feel lonely, even tho we dont speak atm

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

You are still an open book to me. But heres the catch, if i can see it also the people you dont want to mingle with can see it. Please talk with some of your real friends. I totally understand you dont wanna talk to me. And thats ok dear, it is.

[Nordic Model Now! @nordicmodelnow]

Please sign this petition to call for the Nordic Model in Germany.

This petition, organised by German prostitution survivors, is calling for the Nordic Model in Germany. They are asking for our support.

https://t.co/wU2eAH7KFR

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

@SexIndustryRes @Bob16747466 Ugh how can someone write such verbal diarrhea. My stomach is turning while reading it

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

https://t.co/pqCuW8BhG3

You can buy it here but better buy it at your Feminist webshop somewhere

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

"Sous nos regards, Récits de la violence pornographique" is out since this weekend. It contains short stories about the rapes, abuse and the road that leads toward J&M and the porn and prostitution tumor. By buying it you are suporting a group of survivors!

[Mla Nyama @karimilima]

Consent doesn't abolish exploitative dynamics. You can consent to work in a mine for a few peanuts, it doesn't make the conditions you labor in fair.

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

@PaulaGhete I do hope so

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

Almost finished with this one. Just a few more finishing touches and i can sign it with my alias

[K ꩜ @miskhotaaaa]

“Prostitution destroys the equality, solidarity and comradeship of the two halves of the working class. A man who buys the favours of a woman does not see her as a comrade or as a person with equal rights“ - Kollontai

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

@PaulaGhete That was the first thing i did after the initial shock. And i am still going to a therapist. They also diagnosed me with A.D.D. but that didn’t changed much because i was atleast 20 years aware of it allready. Im also a parent of 3 so i have to get myself together

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

@PaulaGhete Im aware of that. And yes I took those steps. And still do each day. But they are becoming more of a burden with each step. I was perfect imperfectly happy with my life untill oktober 2024. And everything came crashing down. Everything after that feels like survival.

[Sid Visjes @SVisjes]

@PaulaGhete Oof. Only reading your question made me cry a little. I m asking myself those quetions in one form or another for 5 months now. But i dont know if i feel secure enough to anwser it. It keeps me up at night and apathic at daylight.

[Jacklena Bentley @JacklenaB]

Abusers be like :
"How dare you ruin my reputation by telling people things that I actually did and said."