@thewoman1941 its a language thing. In my mother tongue we dont have gendered pronouns. We just say that person. I usually default to he when I speak english but I recognized this case is different. Im actively trying to fix this habit of mine. Thank you for your input!
Ive seen some people accusing me of being a transphobe which is not true so ill quickly debunk the points ppl have used:
1. I accidentally called Ninde a "he" but I quickly corrected myself after. I called Ninde a "he" out of habit from my mother tongue language.
2. In the-