A Hard Truth:
People change when:
•They suffer enough
•They become curious
•They ask
Not when they are told. Unasked wisdom feels like attack.
"Even if it’s correct."
True Morality only exists in a void of optimal conditions- as reality hits, the first thing people drop is their morality then justify their actions by creating their own sense of morality.
Morality is an illusion that people tend to play- when the things are optimal to them.
Your beliefs, approaches, diet, life choices are the best possible for you. They are not universal as whatever works for you might not work for others.
So what suits someone else isn't right or wrong nor what suits you is.
Rise in "ambiguity" in darting market is leading cause of people voluntarily choosing to be single.
People are not avoiding love.
They are avoiding uncertain emotional investment.
But attraction and commitment don’t start at the bank account. They start at:
•Emotional presence
•Confidence
•Direction
•Stability of character
•Consistency
•Safety (not just financial, also emotional)
True feminism was about choice, dignity, and agency.
What social media often pushes is selective traditionalism:
1) modern freedom + traditional benefits
2)independence + provider entitlement
3)“don’t control me”+“fund me”
That contradiction creates resentment on both sides.
I hate to break it to a lot of people:
In a romantic relationship- "nobody is the prize".
Both need each other that's why a romantic relationship exists in the first place.
It's crazy how a lot of people in India have decided that they will take medication and consult health doctors when they are old as a chronic illnesses is eternal(according to them), but won't take care of their health, diet and sleep when they are young.
It's all a Choice.
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