Once I've addressed the situation multiple times & it's no changed behavior, I stop caring. It's above me now. People treat you exactly how they feel about you & on top of that you heard me & seen how it affected me the first time. At some point in life you have to know your worth & stop letting people play with you like that.
if love ever finds me again, may the universe let me meet someone who loves me as deep as i do. Someone who is never okay with hurting me. Someone who is loyal, kind & devoted. Someone who will never make me feel unwanted, someone who feels like home & also finds home in me.
I'm at a point in my life where I pray to keep meeting the right people. People who genuinely want the best for me, hold me in high regard, and add peace to my life.
There's nothing louder than the silence between two people who love each other, but ended things because one of them didn't have the capacity to choose the other. So the other had to choose themselves, even though they didn't want to leave.
Dating gets complicated when people don’t truly mean well. Stay single until someone wants love, peace, loyalty, and growth just as bad as you do. Never forget: nobody will care for you better than you care for yourself.
Hardest pill to swallow is realizing people do not care. They’ll hurt you & really go on about their lives. Not even slightly affected about what they did to you & how you feel. Regardless if it’s friendships, relationships, or family.
Throwing away an entire relationship with someone who genuinely loved and accepted every part of you just to chase empty lustful connections on hookup apps is crazy
Unfortunately my last relationship completely changed me. So yes, I DO care about the people in your phone. Yes, I DO care about what you're doing when I’m not around. Yes, I DO care when you seem even slightly off. Yes, I DO care about things I wished I didn’t. And it’s not because I’m insecure, controlling, or trying to make your life difficult. It’s because I learned the hard way what it feels like to trust someone fully… and then be broken by them
Iont care what yall say. Being in a committed relationship.. LONG TERM is doable. Without the cheating or open relationship stuff. I refuse to pretend like self control & intention coupled with discipline aren’t important REAL factors of perennial relational engagement. FOR ME.
I’m single cause I wanna be in a healthy relationship. A completely honest relationship without all the games, or the lying & cheating. I wanna have fun with the person I’m with. Go on trips, vacations & cute dates ect, but nobody on what I’m on.