Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn't really about hard work. It's more about meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.
I highly recommend being friends with ambitious people. Their drive pushes you to work hard for yourself. They inspire you to do better, and their good traits rub off on you. That’s how you grow.
Finish studies, get a job, keep an independent income, buy your own place, update your knowledge about world around you, autonomy over your body, harm no one, be open to genuinely good people. Love doesn't clash with feminist ambitions and a good man understands and supports that
Buy multivitamins .
Buy skin care .
Drink lots of water .
Eat healthy ( stop eating late , max 7:30pm).
Exercise.
Make your hair, buy that wig .
Get your nails and lashes done as often as you can .
And if you have money change your wardrobe.
Invest in your looks
Nothing beats the double back you’ll take every time you pass a mirror.
Ps: work hard . soft life isn’t free.
Girl to girl invest in your physical appearance.
Work out, drink water, keep your hair done, take care of your skin. You don’t have to spend a lot of money, you just need discipline. Self-care should never be optional.
@sheilatebra 1.I kept going when no one clapped.
2.I healed from what tried to destroy me.
3.I believed in myself when it didn’t make sense.
4.I walked away from what wasn’t for me.
5.I’m still here. And that alone is worth the applause.