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If you share fake news about the security situation in Nigeria, if you claim that kidnapping has happened, whereas in fact, it is a lie, even if you delete it, you should be arrested by the DSS and charged to court, since you want to be a nuisance and add to our problems!
When you delay a payment , you’re actually affecting people’s lives.
Especially for work already done. I need the big companies to understand this. It’s so unfair.
1. A man who marries a second wife has not done anything wrong, legally or culturally or religiously, provided that he has the financial and mental capacity to be just and fair to both of you.
2. It’s pointless playing emotional blackmail game to frustrate the man. If you are not careful, he’s most likely going to gravitate towards the other woman more than he will towards you and you won’t blame him for doing so, provided he’s given you as much reassurance as possible and he’s not failing in his marital responsibilities towards you.
3. Contrary to the erroneous believe that the first wife must have done something wrong and the second marriage is a punishment, there are so many instances that could warrant and justify the man’s decision, provided the conditions stated and accepted are met. In fact, a man is not permitted to do that. Instead, he should seek for a divorce before marrying a new wife.
4. No doubt, it is not something to handle or embrace easily. It is emotional wrecking, disappointing and painful. By human nature, it is not an easy pill to swallow. That’s why assurance, reassurance, and need for fairness and justice on the part of man becomes more important than ever. In fact, the man needs to be more patient to handle the emotional rollercoaster. The roles of family and friends cannot be underestimated in this regard.
5. Rather than subject yourself to needless and perpetual emotional warfare, it’s not a do or die affair. If your man’s decision to take another wife does not sit well with you or you cannot imagine yourself living happily in that marriage, you are permitted to seek a dissolution of that marriage. Staying to cause drama, emotional blackmail and treachery affect you more than another person.
May Allah perfect our ways.
@YusufAsunmogejo Some men would have been beggars,or their families would have treated them poorly despite them doing everything right by them, if not that they have a 2nd wife. But then their God loves them a lot. And most 1st wives seldomly tell their kids the real truth about the whole thing
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A home isn’t built on walls, it’s built on hearts at peace with one another.
A du’a for love that feels safe.
For laughter that lingers.
For a household where faith softens everything.
Make this your daily whisper, not just for what you have, but for what you’re building.
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Thank you for your kindness and for sharing.
May God reward you abundantly.
@peng_writer This is dicey. Kindness comes with access and it's abused a lot. Humans who enforce boundaries are labeled unkind,yet they are the ones who might be a candle in the rain. A little kindness and a lot of boundaries would be great.
Having to constantly talk about something you have is evidence that you don't have it in abundance. When your cup is overflowing, you won't need to remind anyone about the flow. It would be evident.