Love hearing about ‘the sanctity of life’ from the same people who have spent the last two years arguing that killing grandma is a small price to pay for being able to sit in an Applebee’s.
So anyway, “wholesome” is not the opposite of sexual. Sex, including queer sex, can be lovely & wholesome & affirming & good. The purity culture idea that leads people to describe sex on tv as if it is antithetical to anything “wholesome” and more akin to violence…don’t like it.
if you are designing software for managing people's identities, please, I beg of you, stop making name a "primary key". don't rely on people's names being static. don't even assume people have one name. assume people have any number of names, and that all of them can be "legal".
I started playing a game with myself where every time something annoys me on Twitter I immediately get off and force myself to do a Duolingo Spanish lesson, and bitch lemme tell you voy a ser bilingüe en poco tiempo porque todos ustedes son muy molestos
rather than remember and use people’s correct pronouns, a lot of cis people have defaulted to using they/them for everyone. please don’t do that! you’re missing the point.
Bigots are abusers, and abusers thrive by forcing you to fight a thousand different battles at once, and are adept at creating more with each one you defeat, like a giant hydra of little battles intended to exhaust you.
Stop fighting the little battles. Just block and move on.
The autistic urge to confuse everyone by never instigating conversation, but being incredibly engaging and bubbly for a few short minutes if approached by others.