Months afterward, she admitted something during a team lunch.
“The hardest part wasn’t learning to be a manager,” she said. “The hardest part was letting go of the story I’d been telling myself for ten years.”
That’s what comfort zones mean to me. Sometimes they’re not places. Sometimes they’re old beliefs we’ve lived with for so long that we mistake them for facts.
Stop assuming people have extra money to lend or give just because they own nice things. There are bills, debt, savings, and planning behind all of this.
Your spiritual rank is so high that you don't need to seek revenge or prove a point. Keep your heart pure, let people reveal who they are, and let life handle the rest.
Please raise your daughters to have hobbies, interests, and academics...so when they become adults and middle-aged women they have something to talk about besides a man.