But when women try their best, it’s “growth” and “healing”, when a man does, it’s “not good enough”? Growth requires grace. If effort is dismissed purely because it’s imperfect, then connection becomes transactional, not relational. If effort isn’t enough, just say you want the outcome without the work. Don’t confuse your entitlement with high standards.
Adulting is knowing your weekends are supposed to be for YOU! No unnecessary outings, no drama, just you eating, sleeping, and relaxing after a stressful week because another one is starting in 2 days.