Stay out of the loop on purpose, let people hesitate to contact you, be in the world but not of it, focus on what actually matters and genuinely ignore the rest. If it's important it will find you, if not let it go elsewhere.
I'm literally so lonely. No one text or call me. I sit in my room all day. Office work, gym, me & my thoughts. I legit don't even have one single friend that ever asks me to hangout or is an actual friend, not one !
I think the love you receive from someone who knows how to be alone is the most sincere. a solitary soul loves you by choice, not out of need for company.
If you understand TIME & SEASON, trust me, you will envy no one. Everyone has their own appointed time. What is happening for someone today may be your story tomorrow. Stay patient, trust the process, and focus on your own journey.