Ladies, try to outsource. If you have the means get yourself a staff. Get a nanny and a cook. Hire a chauffeur. Have as many housekeepers as you & your family need.
My point is you should always look for a simpler way to do things. Make your life comfortable, take care of yourself.
There's no award for wahala π’.
Don't lose yourself in the process of making life easier for others. You matter too.
As women (and if we can) we should normalise relaxing and doing nothing π.
Omar Suleiman in one of his Ramadan series episode said;
If Allah can be patient, waiting for you to return to Him and doesnβt punish you immediately after you commit a sin, why canβt you be patient with His plans and trust Him over your own desires?
This aside,sometimes people donβt realize how important those gestures are, and sometimes it shows whoβs genuinely present in your life, pour your energy into the people who actually showed up for you and your baby.Those are your real people.