Maturity is when you stop asking people why they don't call or text you anymore. You just notice the change and accept it. No drama, no fights. You just walk away with a smile.
Letโs be honest, relationships are not easy. There are going to be misunderstandings, bad days, rolled eyes and Iโm fines. If you want it to last, you have to make compromises, say sorry, accept apologies, communicate and care. Committed relationships need constant effort.
one thing my mama taught me growing up is always keep a paper trail. emails. screenshots. dates. times. receipts. cus people love having amnesia when it's time to be accountable ๐ค๐ฝ
Yoh being a dlozi child who is lead and guided by ancestors ( amakhosi ) ๐ฉ is hard especially royal ancestors. They will pick and choose everything for you that has to align with their beliefs and dignity. You are always governed ๐ฅบ๐. They are too strict man ๐ and stuck in their ways of doing things. They going too picky, they want everything to spiritually align. They will pick a job for you , a career for you , a partner for you (this part mostly stressful ever), decide when you marry and have a babies basically siphethwe.
๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ This is me cracking out randomly because canโt I just live according to my rules and live life as I please just once? lol ๐ I know someone out here relates to me and want to crack out with me just for today.