one thing the last three years has taught me is no matter how low life can go or how hard you can get punched.
if you keep moving and refuse to look back at your past, you’ll surely win.
the path only carves itself out when you walk forward.
the hardest part is not looking back and asking “what if”, “if only” or “let me try that again”.
the most detrimental thing anyone seeking ascension can do is to veer back and catch a glimpse of the good old times.
doesn’t matter if it was a job, business, relationship or event.
the past always has a facade layered on top of it.
by definition it is veiled with rose tinted glasses, always appetising to those who fear the unknown of the future.
people who constantly lose are labelled as those who “get in their own way”
because they keep tripping themselves up by walking forward whilst looking back.
entangled feet cannot carve a path, they stay stagnant.
“a moving man, will surely meet his luck”.
only if he does not look back and say “what if”.
@thebrianmoncada brian, how are you finding the crime and language barrier,
i assume you speak spanish and crime is negligible if quality of life has improved?
@thebeautyofsaas have been taking time to enjoy the fruits of my hard work & cultivating more experiences in order to come back with the bangers you know and love.
hope you are fine and winning as always!
@pipelineabuser i’ve been great my friend.
enjoying beautiful women, the fruits of hard work and becoming one with the trenches.
hoping the same for yourself?
don’t think there’s an age.
it’s more of a build up. you stack enough lies and facades & experience the constant loss around you.
you fail to pinpoint why you never breakthrough with anything that you do and eventually - after you’ve pointed fingers at everyone else - you begin to point fingers at the source,
yourself.
you get here once you’re fed up with losing and want to win & the only person left to blame is yourself.
the worst day of your life won’t be the day you get your heart broken or lose millions.
it’ll be the day you realise that you were lying to yourself this entire time.
you made things harder for yourself for no reason.
you squandered money and opportunities for nothing.
you realise the self sabotaging behaviours you had and try to untangle it all.
you look back at once in a lifetime opportunities that you fumbled and wish you could “run it back”.
you remember sums of untold money that you wasted and it aches.
it’s like an awakening or rebirth. less esoteric, more pragmatic.
i’ve seen this happen to those around me making millions and those around me stuck in a cycle of loss.
the key when you get here is to stop dwelling on what could have been and what you’ve missed out on.
all you can do is look at where you are now and vow to never be the reason why you lose again.
if you lose, let it be because of factors outside of yourself. never let it be you.
this happened to me once.
i woke up and felt as though years of my life were lived as a fraud and it broke me.
i questioned every belief i had about myself for months.
until i decided to stop dwelling and start winning.
i haven’t looked back since. each time i find myself falling down that path of self imposed loss, i catch myself.
i remind myself of the consequences and what i risk in the process.
once you learn to overcome your self sabotaging loser behaviours and live in congruence with your beliefs
you’ll learn that the worst day of your life was equally the best day of your life.