Single or not...married or not.. you STILL have to learn to love yourself, survive by yourself, heal by yourself and protect yourself. No relationship can guarantee that because no relationship is guaranteed
Just because you thought something, supported something, or advocated for something in the past does not mean that you have to continue in the future. You are rarely pot-committed in life. It is rarely too late to right your wrongs and move forward productively. โค๏ธ๐๐