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[The Julify @The_Julify]

@SusanTheDoll @da_moxy @Iam_bussie We learn everyday. Hope this will be helpful

[𝕾𝖎𝖗 𝕮𝖍𝖗𝖎𝖘 @eagleseyeinc]

how to choose a husband

(based on standards, not illusions)

social behavior:
1. private life stays private
2. prioritizes protection
3. not addicted to status signaling
4. disciplined with alcohol, nightlife and excess
5. respected by other men (not feared, not mocked)

character and temperament:
1. strength without intimidation
2. disagreement without humiliation
3. accountability without excuses
4. integrity when no one is watching
5. emotionally regulated under pressure
6. anger is controlled, not suppressed or explosive
7. has a calm authority, not performative dominance

values and discipline:
1. loyalty is a principle, not a mood
2. delayed gratification is normal to him
3. his self-respect precedes entitlement
4. low impulsivity with money, sex and decisions
5. doesn’t chase validation or female attention
6. keeps boundaries even when tempted
7. not addicted to gambling

relationships and history:
1. peace is his baseline, not constant conflict
2. doesn’t define himself by past women or failures
3. no addiction to novelty or conquest
4. no unresolved ex-dramas lingering in his life
5. history shows learning, not repetition

family and imprint:
1. respects his mother without being controlled by her
2. understands masculine responsibility from example or correction
3. comes from or has built structure and order
4. no pattern of abandoning commitments under pressure
5. understands leadership cos he’s practiced it

communication and respect:
1. speaks directly without manipulation
2. listens without ego fragility
3. doesn’t weaponize silence, anger or provision
3. protects your reputation publicly and privately
5. conflict is handled, not avoided or dramatized

work, purpose and provision:
1. has direction, not just ambition
2. makes consistent effort, not big talk
3. builds steadily, not impulsively
4. sees provision as responsibility, not leverage
5. money decisions are rational, not emotional

attraction and intimacy:
1. attraction is natural, not coerced
2. desire exists without entitlement
3. craves sex as connection, not control
4. craves a stable affection, not conditional
5. strength and gentleness coexist

timing and readiness:
1. chooses marriage consciously, not reactively
2. not escaping loneliness or social pressure
3. understands sacrifice without bitterness
4. wants partnership, not dominance or dependency
5. your nervous system settles around him

summary rule, as a woman:
don’t marry charm, don’t marry intensity, don’t marry promises.
marry discipline, consistency and leadership.

your life will become steadier, not chaotic
your trust will deepen, not be negotiated
your future will feel protected, not uncertain

bookmark and save for later, daughter. buena suerte. 👍

[Miyandy @Amahashi_]

I worked 20 years for a child sex trafficking rescue group. I want you to know this:

90% of Lost Children Are Found Within 30 Minutes.

That statistic should both comfort you and wake you up.

Most lost children are found quickly. But the ones who aren’t? They usually made one mistake.

And here’s the uncomfortable truth:

It’s often the exact thing most parents teach them.

We tell our kids:

“If you get lost, come find me.”

It sounds logical. It sounds empowering.

It’s WRONG!

The Mistake Most Lost Children Make:

When children realize they’re separated, they do three things almost automatically:

They panic.
They wander.
They try to find you.

Every step makes them harder to locate.

From a search standpoint, movement creates chaos.

Parents retrace their steps.
Security scans zones.
Staff lock down areas.

Search works best when movement stops.

When a child keeps walking, they move outside the original search radius. Helpers are looking where they were last seen — not where they’ve wandered.

Stillness increases probability.

Movement expands the problem.

The first lesson is not “go find me.”

It’s this:

Stop. Stay. Yell.

Why Stillness Wins:

Think like a search team.

If a child stays put:

Parents can retrace steps.
Security can scan systematically.
Helpers converge to one fixed location.
The search radius remains small.
If a child keeps moving:

The search area expands.
Adults pass each other.
Missed connections multiply.
Minutes stretch into hours.
Stillness keeps the math on your side.

Teach Them Who to Approach:

The second mistake we make as parents?

We say, “Find an adult.”

Not any adult. Not the nearest stranger. Children need a filter.

Teach them to look for, if at all possible:

A mother with children.

Caregivers who already have kids with them are statistically among the safest people to approach in public settings. They are visible, stationary, and more likely to engage quickly.

It’s a clear, concrete instruction.

Children don’t process vague categories like “safe adult.”

They process visuals.

“Find a mom with kids” is visual.

A Phone Only Helps If the Number Is Known:

We often assume phones solve everything.

They don’t — unless your child can use one. Even young children can memorize a 10-digit phone number with repetition.

But you must train it.

Practice it like a song.

Sing it in the car.
Chant it at bedtime.
Turn it into rhythm.

Repetition becomes recall.

In an emergency, recall matters more than theory.

The Code Word Rule:

One more layer of protection.

Choose a private family code word.

Something only your household knows.

If someone approaches and says:

“Your mom sent me.”

Your child asks:

“What’s the code word?”

No word.
No go.

This simple rule eliminates manipulation attempts instantly.

It gives your child agency without requiring them to evaluate character.

Real Safety Is Training — Not Luck!

We don’t get safer by hoping.

We get safer by practicing.

Teach:

• Phone number
• Code word
• Stop, stay, yell
• Find a mom with kids

Multiple skills.
Simple instructions.
Clear visuals.

Five minutes of training can replace hours of panic. This isn’t about fear. It’s about preparation.

Because when a child gets separated, the clock starts.

And what they do in the first minute determines what the next thirty look like.

That’s real protection.

[Asanwa.sol @Chizitere_xyz]

Men are absolutely capable of playing house, going on vacations, and acting like a devoted boyfriend for five years with a woman they already know, with 100% certainty, they will never marry.

​Women usually date for the future; if a woman is with you for years, it's because she sees you at the altar. Men, however, are incredibly skilled at dating for the present. The lore dictates that a man will comfortably keep a "placeholder" woman around simply because she is warm, loyal, and makes his daily life convenient. He will give her boyfriend privileges, take her to his family's house, and say "I love you," all while secretly knowing she doesn't fit the specific archetype he actually wants for a wife. And the second his actual "ideal" walks into the room, he will dismantle that five-year relationship without blinking.

This is called the "Placeholder lore"

[💗 @ma1ybe]

I was on a bus today where a guy was continuously asking a girl for her number and was kind of harassing her. She said no multiple times. Thankfully, there was a 50-year-old man who stepped in and stood behind her until her stop. When she got off, the older man asked the boy who had been hitting on her, “Don’t you think there’s a difference between yes and no?” The girl had been continuously saying no, yet you kept making her uncomfortable” The boy replied , “No, there is no difference between yes and no.” Then the older man said, “Can I slap you?” The boy said no, and the man still slapped him and said, “Yes, because there’s no difference between yes and no.” I think he will forever remember this lesson

[Dr. Mary @Oluwamidunsin]

To those asking. I will Try to Explain this Canadian Immigration, What it entails, the process and how Nigerians can benefit without gatekeeping. Ensure you read to the end not to miss any details.

Canada wants international medical doctors to move there more easily.
They are offering:
1. Multiple pathways to Permanent Residence (PR)
Doctors can apply through 5 immigration routes, mainly through:
•Express Entry immigration system
•Provincial Nominee Program (PNP)
•Regional / territorial health worker programs
These allow doctors to become permanent residents faster.

2. Fast 14-day work permit
If a province nominates a doctor, the doctor can receive a work permit in about 14 days.
That means:
•You can start working in Canada quickly
•While waiting for PR approval

3. Family can move with you
You can include:
•Spouse
•Children
They can:
•Get open work permits
•Study in Canada

Important thing many people misunderstand
Even though Canada wants doctors, YOU CANNOT IMMEDIATELY WORK AS A DOCTOR WITHOUT LICENSING.

A Nigerian doctor must still go through Canadian medical licensing.
That usually involves:
•Exams
•Residency or practice-ready assessment
The main licensing body is the
Medical Council of Canada.

Now let’s talk about the realistic pathway for a Nigerian doctor.

A Nigerian doctor typically follows one of these routes.

Pathway 1: Express Entry for Doctors
This is the main immigration route.
Step-by-step:
1. Create a profile in
Express Entry immigration system
2. Submit credentials:
•Medical degree
•English test (IELTS or CELPIP)
•Credential evaluation
3. If your score is high enough → receive Invitation to Apply
4. Apply for Permanent Residence
5. Move to Canada
6. Begin licensing process to practice medicine.

Pathway 2: Provincial Nominee Program (Fastest route)
This is what the tweet is referring to mostly.
Provinces that recruit foreign doctors include:
•Saskatchewan
•Nova Scotia
•Newfoundland and Labrador
•Manitoba
Process:
1. Apply for doctor job in a province
2. Province nominates you
3. You receive PNP nomination
4. Apply for PR
5. Receive 14-day work permit
6. Start working

This is currently the easiest route.

Pathway 3: Practice-Ready Assessment Programs
Some provinces allow experienced foreign doctors to skip residency.
Examples of provinces:
•British Columbia PRA
•Alberta PRA
•Saskatchewan SIPPA

Requirements often include:

•3–5 years experience
•Passing Canadian exams
•Working in rural communities

4. Exams Nigerian doctors may need
Typical exams include:
•Medical Council of Canada Qualifying Examination Part I
•English test (IELTS or equivalent)
Some provinces may waive exams if you are practice-ready.

5. Salary for doctors in Canada
Average:
Family physician:
💰 $200,000 – $350,000 / year
Specialists:
💰 $300,000 – $500,000+

6. Why Canada is doing this
Canada currently has:
•Thousands of doctor vacancies
•Long patient waiting times
•Aging population
So they are actively recruiting international medical graduates (IMGs).

7. Reality check (important)
The immigration part is easier now, but the medical licensing is still the biggest hurdle.
Many IMGs initially work as:
•Clinical assistants
•Researchers
•Healthcare consultants
while completing licensing.

The Canadian Medical Exam can be written in Nigeria from Prometrics Centre in Lagos and Abuja.

Create an account with
https://t.co/nNy9shQqDh.
Steps:
1. Open account
2. Upload medical degree
3.Verify credentials
4. Apply for MCCQE Part I
5. Choose Prometric test center

Cost of the Exams
•MCCQE Part I: ~$1,420 CAD
•Credential verification: ~$170 CAD

Please kindly share, someone can benefit from it.

Dr Mary
@Oluwamidunsin

I will be in the comment section to answer further questions

[OurFaveOnlineDoc 🇬🇧 🇳🇬 @OurFavOnlineDoc]

There is an injection called LENACAPAVIR.

You only take the injection once every 6months, which is twice a year. It gives you protection against HIV.

This amazing injection is now available in Nigeria for only 58,000 naira.

THIS DOES NOT REPLACE ABSTINENCE OR SAFE PRACTICES. (because even if you don’t get HIV, you can get more deadlier diseases like hepatitis B from unsafe practices).

But either way,
This injection is really good news.
Please share and help someone to see this.

[China pulse 🇨🇳 @Eng_china5]

In China, buses display traffic lights... on their backs! 🤯

To avoid obstructing the view of cars behind them due to the bus's size, the screen displays the traffic light in real time.

[Shaboozey @ShaboozeysJeans]

A boy from Virginia and a child of immigrants won his first Grammy last night. I’m forever grateful.🖤

[UGO SI MBA! @Janefrances_Al]

It’s all fun and games until one of this Agbero’s rips your scarf and you are naked

[Hlovo @hlovo_]

Who snitched ???😭

[Gedam Tekle @gedamtekle]

The richest people in America don’t chase trends.

They own the boring businesses no one talks about.

Here are 10 businesses that print money on demand:

[Chikwere @NwekereNdoki]

This is Cartel Beach, Owerri, Imo State

Gate fee here is 10k per head/adult

I counted more than 500 people in this video

This was just last few weeks.

10,000 x 500 = 5,000,000 for just gate fee

I never add food and drinks

And someone is underplaying hospitality!!🤦

[Angel @Yemo247]

The way teachers are going into online teaching of diaspora kids…soon there will be no classroom teachers left in 9ja. They are making cool money from the comfort of their homes…some won’t even bother to japa at this rate…My Big Sis is paying 200k just for English and Maths 3/wk tutoring and her child is not the only one that teacher is tutoring…if you are teacher…kindly look into this…best of luck

[The Julify @The_Julify]

@GuyMr0 It is a worldwide scare. People who discovered cure to cancer or how to make gasoline from plastic are disappearing too. Some people are so bent on controlling and manipulating the market at all cost, even if it costs blood.

[Pharaoh👳🏾‍♂️👑 @MrMekzy_]

To all married men, do you have anything to say to or any advice for single men looking to marry soon?

[The Julify @The_Julify]

@davido As Davido enter Omah Lay life Afro depression flew out the window. Glad I witnessed this live. Live once, live happy

[NEON ADEJO @NeonAdejo]

IF YOU COME ACROSS THIS PRAYER, IT’S FOR YOU:
My effort will produce breakthrough
I will do little and see mighty results
I am favored in the places that matter most
The hearts of my helpers are stirred with kindness toward me
My gift attracts international partnerships
Brands are drawn to me for meaningful collaborations
I record massive sales this week.
It becomes clear to everyone that the Lord is with me
I advance on every side this year, nothing missing, nothing held back.
Type AMEN

[Dr. Maalouf ‏ @realMaalouf]

TERRIFYING: Christians are being hunted like animals in Nigeria.

An Islamist group invaded a Christian village and started shooting everyone in sight.

They are killing Christians on Eid and offering them as human sacrifices.

The media remains silent.

[The Julify @The_Julify]

@Teeniiola You forgot the oga patapata of dem all. “Wetin you born? Na boy Abi girl?”🙄