ya'll way too comfortable with disrespecting /mistreating people and just expecting them to"get over it"without holding yourself accountable.y'all mess up genuine people simply because your pride is too big to give a decent apology followed by corrective action and ways to fix it
NOBODY watches you harder than jealous-spirited people. They will hate on you, throw shade at you, judge you, tell you you're wrong, and then copy you bar for bar.
I wonder when women will realize that being a "bigger person" will never get us out of this mess. You can't secure safety by being kind to someone who has nothing but malice toward you.
Imagine being with someone & hyping yourself up to confess your “love” to someone else & thinking that idea eats😭
I fear that reveals 1’s own deranged codependent mental state
This is not leapfrog
I am not a lily pad
I am not a soft place to land after leaving another🤣💥
So when you have an odd number & you one-up it, it becomes an even number
And life works the same way. When the odds are against you… but you one-up those odds… you get… even🤭
female power is knowing you were never meant to obey or shrink. you were meant to create worlds, embrace being a goddess, say no, ask for what you want, voice your needs, & nurture yourself before pouring into others. sacrifice & self-denial were myths used to control women.
you cannot treat people a certain way, talk about them, treat them terribly & then expect them to be a nice or kind version of themselves towards you afterwards. like um no. I’m quick to act accordingly and remove myself immediately. I treat disrespect with distance tf.
People get very annoyed when they find out they can’t get you of character. But your greatest advantage is not to ever let anyone know what can get you upset, irritated or angry. stay cool and calm, no one is worth losing your calm and cool over.