Zero anger towards the politicians who failed you. Zero anger towards the bandits terrorizing your villages. Yet an endless supply of rage for an innocent woman simply going about her business.
Talaka Najeriya, akwai abin takaici.!
@ahmedhalimah02 I think every Muslim lady should be polygyny oriented. It’s 50-50. If it happens, fine. If it doesn’t, fine.
PS:this is MY own opinion. And you’re free to express yours as well. Infact, I respect your opinion too.
@Waspapping_ Yes sarki permission from the first wife is not a condition for a valid second marriage, and informing her beforehand is not generally considered an obligation, but however wisdom, honesty, and good treatment strongly favor transparency and fairness.
Wallahu a’alam
@_Muhammadhafz Allah says MAY, He didn't say MUST. So no be all men go do polygamy and it's within her right to ask for divorce if she doesn't want it, why exactly are you pained because of someone else's choice?
Polygamous men now will not see you o… they will go and look for someone that will douse petrol on their car when they mention another woman for the entertainment of it and be crying that women are this, women are that 😂
Whn I was growing I have different dream about the man I want to marry, but now I want to marry a married men, I need that space morethan anything
I spend weekends in my room unless is necessary to go out
I eat when I see what I want or take tea
I have find peace with the way I live and changing that will be difficult.
Go to work, order food, pray magrib and sleep
On repeat 😌😌
Second wife, third wife, or even fourth wife I’ll enter o . I genuinely value my space and peace of mind. Having a few days away from someone breathing down my neck sounds perfectly fine to me.
When my father died, his brother took all 12 of us into his home. He already had 12 children of his own, but wallahi, we never lacked anything. We had good schools, maids to help take care of us, good food, and everything we needed.
We never felt like we had lost our father or that we didn't belong in that house. He treated us like his own children, and I'll always be grateful for that.
Sadly, we lost him in 2021. May Allah have mercy on him, and grant him Aljannah Firdaus. Ameen.
Yari allegedly took over 1 trillion from Zamfara state. This is all from the federation account. The people in Zamfara are living in poverty and yet the man is working about freely & promoting the Mandate of Tinubu & APC. Watch this video by Dan Bello.
I once saw a man whose children, all married and grown, made arrangements for their mother, his wife, to move in with one of them.
This man used to be wealthy, strict, and a complete no-nonsense person.
But life has a way of humbling people. His wife and children probably felt he had treated them badly over the years, so they all left him.
He was diabetic and hypertensive. It was his brother who eventually hired a caregiver to look after him. Before that, he was living alone, shitting and pissing himself.
The lesson is simple, marry a woman who loves you and is kind to you. And do everything you can to treat your wife and children with kindness and respect.
Life comes at all of us very fast.
If you think your wife will only be obedient to you because she is financially dependent on you, then you need to work on yourself.
If you’re certain a woman will only be obedient to you because she is financially dependent on you, then you should not marry that woman.
Rizq is in the hands of Allaah. If it is written that your wife will be richer than you, there is nothing on earth you can do about it.
Marry a woman who understands that obeying her husband is an injunction from Allaah and does so willingly, not because she is financially dependent on him.
I say, "I've left it to Allah," and genuinely mean it, but then I catch myself making dua for it all day, praying extra nafl, and overthinking it again. The battle between tawakkul and desire is no joke. 😭
Fascinating that Muslim Brothers are actually insulting me because I am encouraging Sisters to Earn and become Financially independent, interesting times .
What exactly are you scared of?
So you can continue to starve them?
Sisters for your own good Be financially literate and savvy the alternative is dire and very much so.
If my message is not for you, kindly block and keep it moving .
Brothers especially irresponsible Muslim Brothers , I owe you no allegiance, None whatsoever.
I don't do sentiments with financial abusers, I won't spare you because you've destroyed many Sisters with your Gaslighting and irresponsibilities.
Those who wants to remain in your bondages can, good luck to them .
As for those that want out, the blueprint is Simple, focus on your financial life and ask Allah for help to bless your efforts. That's all.
Akhs on Twitter are tearing their pants and boxers because we said women should be financially independent before marriage.
You guys will eventually get tired and come to terms with it. No woman, in this day and age, should get married without a source of income.
In fact, why would you solely depend on another person for your finances? Find a job, start a business—just make your own money.
You have bills to pay. It’s naive to depend entirely on anyone on earth to foot all your bills.