Some advice to fathers who do not live with their kids, but provide financially.
It is important to not just send EFTs & ewallets, but to go shopping with your kids & tell them that you pay for things. Penuel The Black Pen.
MY WOMAN WOULD NEVER
Really? Yesterday I posted about how any man who thinks he's the only man who will sleep with his wife till her death is stupid and many married guys and even those in serious relationships were furious with that post. Because all these men believe "my woman would never"
My fellow brothers, if you have never been the casual sex guy, you don't even know women one bit. Women wear masks and put on performances. Racking up casual sex history with women is how you learn, what women are really like and how women will stop shocking you
Think about this, amongst all your exs, there's always that one woman you know that even if she is in a serious relationship or even married, if you want to, you can sleep with her. Sadly, your never think that another guy has the same power over your "queen". That is the harsh reality that another man's serious relationship, is another man's one night stand
This applies to every woman, whether you found her virgin or not, but it is a gurantee that if you didn't find her a virgin, that there is one or two guys she can't resist. It's only a matter of a good environment and one good conversation, and they will eat each other again. She may even get pregnant for him
Yes do trust your woman but not to the point where you can boldy think and say, you're the only man she's ever going to sleep with till the day she dies. Because the day she will betray you, you will run mad
You need to call condition your mind that - no matter how innocent she appears, how much she loves you, how much religious she is, how long you've been together, she can still cheat
Leave room for betrayal!!!
Learn OR perish!!!
Regardless of what’s happening, the cards you’ve been dealt, what they are doing to you, your assignment doesn’t change… you work!
Word to @theo_baloyi01
The significance of this episode is beyond anything anyone could comprehend. Shoutout to the huns in the background (they were shooting also), I hope they good.
I've been waiting to share this with y'all for 3 months. Say what you will, but you can never say I disrespect the mic. Never that. Share: like, comment, and SUBSCRIBE... #Wilderness
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I've been waiting to share this with y'all for 3 months. Say what you will, but you can never say I disrespect the mic. Never that. Share: like, comment, and SUBSCRIBE... #Wilderness
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DON'T BE A WILL SMITH
Will Smith could have easily been remembered as one of the best actors of his generation but he will now be remembered as the poster boy for simping. His image is ruined beyond repair, all because he picked a damaged woman for a wife. This is why it is very important to avoid damaged women
Many men suffer from the "save a damsel in distress" syndrome. This is a result of being programmed that women are these innocent beings, if they're damaged in any way, a man must step up to save them. What this mentality fails to recognize is, these women are not victims but architectures of their own misery
There's a saying, water seeks it's level, meaning guys who think or tell women with bad men things like "he doesn't deserve you, you're better than this" are too stupid to realize that's her actual type. She doesn't need any saving, she's right where she should be
Will Simp formerly Will Smith made the mistake of trying to save Jada Pinket, this was a woman who had been around a thug, fascinated, obsessed with this thug, Tupac. He thought it was his chance when Tupac died to prove to Jada, how much of a better man he was.
This was his biggest mistake ever, because if a woman has a history of rewarding evil, she'll not appreciate goodness. Sure she may accept the good gestures but she will not appreciate them. And eventually, sooner or later, she'll punish you for it. It's not a matter of IF but WHEN
There's that saying never take a wounded stray home, because once it's healed, it will bite you and go back to the streets where you found it. In simple terms, yes a damaged woman can be with you, the good guy (out of desperation) and she'll be accepting of your good gestures, treating her like a queen. But in reality she'll always thirst for that bad boy who treated her like shit
She doesn't want to be pedestalized but objectified. As twisted as that is, that's just how it is, she will reward the sins of strength and punish the good deeds of weakness. Now with this knowledge, don't try to go and about trying to be captain save a thot, let damaged women be
You will never be a damaged woman's greatest lover, she'll always compare you to that shitty guy. She's emotionally cold to kindness, care or love, she'll interpret it as weakness. Her emotions can only be triggered by the opposite of that. Meaning if you want to deal with a damaged woman (which I strongly disagree with) then you will have to match or overshadow the toxicity of every other man she's been involved with
But is it worth it, instead you can just go for a woman who hasn't been damaged. Learn OR perish!!!
I can actually pin point EXACTLY when/where things started going South. We stopped doing @TheBarracksSD , and I lost my way. Now I'm like everyone else, the Sof' Lot. Crazy. Let me catch a sermon...
Will Smith married Jada a damaged woman and he is now paying heavily for that costly lapse of judgement. And you too can pay a heavy price if you don't steer away from damaged women
Here are a few examples of damaged women:
•SINGLE MOMS - never try to succeed were another man failed. Don't try to start a family with someone's else family. And know this, single moms aren't looking for love but help
•SINGLE MOM DAUGHTERS - women raised by single moms tend to be damaged due to their daddy issues. They grow up in a hateful environment, were the mother despises men, the apple never falls far from the tree
•VICTIMS OF ABUSE - yes it may not be her fault but the fact that she went through some form of abuse, she comes with a lot of trauma. You're not a therapist, neither are you Jesus, let her be with her traumas
•WIDOWED - by an means avoid women who lost their lovers via death, they're always going to be tied to their dead lovers. And she will always compare you to her dead lover, you will be competing with a dead man and sadly you'll never be enough
•IF SHE DATED THUGS - this is why it's important to vet a woman's past, the type of men she's dated before tells you everything about her. If she dated thugs/bums, that is her type, she's damaged. She is now programmed to reward toxicity, anything else is a turn off
•IF SHE DATED CELEBRITIES - celebrities tend to live the fast life, always in the spotlight. She too will get hooked to that lifestyle, it gives her a dopamine rush. And it gives her a sense of importance being associated with that celebrity. If you're just an average guy, she's going to find you boring
•IF SHE DATED POLITICIANS - she's attracted to power, it turns her on. It gives her sense of importance being associated with these powerful men. If you're just an average guy, she's going to view you as weak, she will be very disrespectful and ultimately she'll cheat or dump you
•PARTY GIRLS - any woman who goes clubbing regularly is damaged. Club culture is all about promiscuity, she has probably slept with many men than she can remember, from the bouncers, bar tenders to the patrons, in all kinds of places, toilets, cars, lodges and has more than once woke up at a stranger's house with no memory whatsoever of how she got there
•30+ YEAR OLD GRANNIES - find a woman who's still single in her 30s you will soon understand why she's still single in her 30s. If she was such a gem, she would be off the market by that age. She is trouble, she carries a lot of baggage
•FEMINIST - no woman out of the blue decides that she is now a feminist, if you trace her history, she was damaged somehow - be it abandonment issues, abused, aborted or got heartbroken. Show me a happy feminist and I'll show you an honest politician, they're always miserable
Thesr are just some of the many examples of damaged women you're supposed to stay away from. If anything the most you can do is just smash and pass but never commiting, you will regret it soon rather than later. And we will use you as an example
Learn OR perish!!!
Men,
No woman born of a woman can give you an orgasm that beats the pleasure that comes from genuinely working on your purpose.
Nothing beats it!
Mike Tyson was celibate for 5 years of his boxing career because he wanted to make it to the top. And he eventually did.
This isn't talked about enough:
'Purpose, not woman, is the true first love of a man'
But many men never find their purpose in life & that's tragic
My advice?
Don't be like "many men"
Find your purpose & let it kill you!
"Tough times create strong men.
Strong men create easy times.
Easy times create weak men.
Weak men create tough times.
Many will not understand but we have to be and raise warriors"