TheCaesar

Blunt honest and is not afraid to voice my opinion, Panromantic Homoflexible, (M), 21, single

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

Gonna put my take on this since it's necessary .how you present yourself is how you're treated, it's basic human nature.

Look like a bum, you'll be treated as such.

Look like you're made of money, you'll be treated as such.

Look like a slut, you'll be treated as such.

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

@semperence Sex work is also not work soooo

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

@semperence Words are ineffective in this area...

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

@kittimp_VT Tsk tsk tsk

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

@Yunadere Smh

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

I was once victim to that kind of trap before. Growing up I thought any attention was good. I received bad attention and that influenced my behaviors and habits, causing me to do bad things.

I can say that cycle is extremely hard to break. Don't let yourself fall victim too.

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

I understand many will disagree with me on my stance on of/fansly, but I come from factual basis on human psychology. I know how the human brain works. That's why it's important to distinguish good attention from bad attention.

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

It's a cycle because people naturally seek validation, to fit in. And they assume receiving money and attention no matter how they obtain it as validation. The truth/reality is, there's right and wrong ways to receive validation. The wrong kind influences bad cycles like this.

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

I refer to the viscous cycle that many fall victim to. It's the cycle of validation and finance.

They may start out teasing, but the more attention and money they receive, they falsely believe it as genuine validation. They then keep going, until if turns into hardcore porn.

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

The common yet unspoken truth about OF/Fansly is that it's trap. Once you enter that world, it's pretty hard to escape it. I've heard many say they do it not for the sex stuff but rather to make ends meet.

Unfortunately for you, it will end up being all about sex eventually.

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

@celestialsk1es Those sites do change people and how they think. If you want to think those sites is genuine validation then so be it. Your future is in your hands, don't choose poorly. For your sake.

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

@celestialsk1es And you say in 2 years you'll be chasing a degree...a lot can happen in 2 years, who's to say you won't fall victim to the cycle of that content by then?.

There literally onlyfans/fansly creators that have quite literally stated how hard it is to leave that industry once joined.

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

Like think what you want of me because I don't rightfully care. But just know if you're quick to believe I'm malicious then you just shown me your true colors.

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

For all the whiners out there complaining about a double standard when it comes to showing face.

This is my alt, my face is on my main. But I'll post it here to shut yall up.

Nice try tho.

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

For all the whiners out there complaining about a double standard when it comes to showing face.

This is my alt, my face is on my main. But I'll post it here to shut yall up.

Nice try tho.

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

@CloudFloof7 I'm glad you agree, and I'm glad to have you as a friend *hugs*

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

The common yet unspoken truth about OF/Fansly is that it's trap. Once you enter that world, it's pretty hard to escape it. I've heard many say they do it not for the sex stuff but rather to make ends meet.

Unfortunately for you, it will end up being all about sex eventually.

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

@VraskaTheNoodle You look great, don't be putting yourself down!

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

@CloudFloof7 It turns into a hard to break cycle of being a sexual object. People let themselves believe that being a sexual object or fantasy equals validation. It doesn't, it only further solidifies the idea of "You're not a person, but rather a toy for the enjoyment of others."

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

@celestialsk1es A large majority let those sites define them. They stop trying to do anything else because it "works". But just because something "works" doesn't mean that it's full proof or perfect. The cons outweigh the pros. Just like everyone, it's only a matter of time before it catches up.

[TheCaesar @TheCaesar62]

@celestialsk1es That and there's always better ways to make ends meet. Something true about that content is that it's a trap. Once you enter that world, it's pretty damn hard to escape it.

You say it's not about sex now. But that is the expectation on those sites and always will be.