@annotated888@sylencio2200@Babagabbana1@thecarlosking_ Ironically, dismissing the conversation as ‘people just want to be angry’ skips the nuance you’re asking for. Examining patterns isn’t the same as policing people’s relationships.
@annotated888@Babagabbana1 There’s a difference between saying ‘date whoever you want’ and pretending social patterns don’t exist. Individual choices can still be influenced by culture, media, racism, or colorism. Talking about those influences isn’t the same as telling people who they’re allowed to love.
@Babagabbana1@annotated888@thecarlosking_ If nobody cared, these conversations wouldn’t trend every six months. Pretending a pattern doesn’t exist isn’t the same as disproving it
@annotated888@thecarlosking_ There’s a difference in dating white men and ONLY dating white men and one is heavily steeped in self hatred cause by racism and colorism
@FUCCl She just needs better direction sonically because it gets to a point where it feels like she’s just eating other girls nachos. That dark ethereal sound from “Ungodly Hour” was it tho. 🔥🔥
@KareemRevived It frustrates me that words like ‘ponk,’ ‘sissy,’ and ‘fag’ get used most against gay folks living openly, while ‘DL’ or ‘closeted’ are just labels for men who won’t. (Not talking about men who truly can’t)