Recognizing that a passing trans man can benefit from cis male privilege in an optical setting doesn’t mean he wields structural power within the patriarchy. Our lived reality is a complex intersection where conditional male privilege and anti-transness exists at the same time.
@anilachim@polen_ball Genuinely wtf does that have to with women pushing us to accept being called a name we don't wanna be called? Respect is for everybody
many trans folks (including myself) opt out of bottom surgery for numerous reasons & thats perfectly fine. coming on here like “i looked at the subreddit where you guys felt safe enough to post your phalloplasty results & ew. that COSMETIC surgery looks so ugly/fake.” is NOT fine