GirlieCode 🎀

A safe space for women becoming their best selves ✨
Dating | Self-worth | Healing | Growth 🤍
For the girls learning, growing & glowing 💌

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Welcome to GirlieCode 🤍

A corner of the internet for the girls learning to love themselves, set boundaries, heal, grow and become the woman they’ve always wanted to be ✨

Dating lessons, life advice, self-worth reminders & everything in between 💌

You’re safe here.

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@dijiaderogba I’d lean on the side of detachment that speaks to self respect and not being cold. Detachment is not becoming heartless, it’s learning that your peace cannot depend on someone else’s presence, attention or choices.

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@jaaayLENo Honestly, I think this is a fear a lot of people have but don’t say out loud. Settling isn’t about choosing someone imperfect,we’re all imperfect. It’s about choosing a life where your heart, needs, and values are constantly being ignored just because you’re afraid to start over.

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@khanofkhans11_ Call it delusion, I call it faith in myself. The kind where you believe in yourself enough to keep going, keep trying, and trust that things can work out even when you don’t have all the answers yet.

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@Lizformee And that’s such a powerful place to be. A relationship can be a beautiful part of your life, but it should never be the whole plan. Build a life you’re excited about, with or without anyone beside you.

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@libriscent @kayyyhh Insecurity shows up as trying to humble someone you feel intimidated by. A healthy person doesn’t need to make someone else feel small just to feel bigger.

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@muheediva01 It depends on who he is;
You can be soft but confident and respond like, “I smile when I feel like smiling” or if you like him and wanna flirt, “Give me a reason to”

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@aboysaysnoword Forgiveness is about freeing yourself from carrying the hurt, not automatically giving someone access to you again. Peace can absolutely come with a closed door too.

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The goal isn’t to become someone who never loves deeply again. It’s to become someone who never abandons herself while doing it.

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@NEPTUNEFLAWLES Maybe not to never love like that again… but to never lose yourself like that again. The right lesson from heartbreak is not closing your heart, it’s learning to love yourself alongside someone else.

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The woman I’m becoming would not believe the things the old me tolerated 😭

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I’m learning that peace is actually the flex. The older I get, the less I want drama, confusion and people who make me question where I stand.

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Some people call you “changed” when they really mean “harder to access.”

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@JadieTheeDuck Yes you are baby girl, be true to yourself is what’s most important 🤍

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Omg babes when a guy tells you that he does not deserve you, believe it like mad and run!

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@AnnieOdafe Girlllllllllll
Once you have seen the light, you can’t undo it

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To my girlies, is being self aware a blessing or a curse?

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@JadieTheeDuck These men be telling us exactly what it is majority of the time!

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@sijuagain Doing it!

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A woman who knows her worth moves differently.

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Someone realizing that they cannot show up for you is not a reflection of your value. It’s a reflection of their capacity, who they are and where they are in their life and you need to let them go be with their type.