Julius Divine Afonebe

Building PurposeLens. | Learning leadership, communication, purpose & growth. | Becoming a Product Designer.

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

I’m building PurposeLens, learning leadership, communication, purpose & growth—and becoming a Product Designer.

I’m not here to pretend I have it all figured out. I’m documenting what I learn, build, get wrong, and become.

If you’re becoming too, you’re welcome here.#BecomingMe

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

@pst_iren God answers prayers

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

I started this challenge thinking I was building a posting habit.
I didn’t realise I was building something deeper.
The posts will disappear into the timeline. The lessons will stay with me.
30 days later, I’m still becoming.
#Thoughts #GrowthMindset

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

I didn’t do these 30 days perfectly.
I missed days. I got tired. I lost momentum.
But I kept coming back.
And somewhere along the way, I became someone I can trust to keep showing up.
What has consistency taught you?
#Thoughts #Growth

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

30 days ago, I just wanted to prove I could show up.
Today, I’m grateful for everything these days taught me about growth, purpose, communication, learning—and myself.
The real win was becoming.
#Thoughts #Growth

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

I’m learning that people don’t always need you to fix something.
Sometimes, they just need to know they were heard.
When was the last time you truly listened to someone?
#Thoughts #Communication

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

PEOPLE REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL.
BUT THEY ALSO REMEMBER
WHETHER YOU REALLY HEARD THEM.

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

One thing I’m learning about people: there’s usually more beneath the surface.
Sometimes behaviour is communicating something words never will.
Are we listening deeply enough?
#Thoughts #Communication

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

I’m learning that your intention doesn’t automatically become someone else’s understanding.
You may know what you meant.
They only know what you communicated.
How often do we forget that?
#Thoughts #Communication

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

I thought I was doing a 30-day challenge to build consistency.

I didn’t realise I was learning to trust myself to keep showing up.

Maybe that’s the real win.

#Thoughts #Learning

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

The more I reflect on this journey, the more I realise the biggest reward isn’t the outcome.

It’s who I’m becoming while pursuing it.

Who are you becoming?

#Thoughts #Learning

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

My biggest lesson so far?

I thought consistency meant never falling off.

Now I’m learning that sometimes, consistency is simply having the courage to come back.

What keeps you coming back?

#Thoughts #Learning

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

The biggest lesson I’m taking from this journey:

The real reward isn’t what you accomplish.

It’s who you become while refusing to quit.

#Thoughts #Learning

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

@PastorEAAdeboye @RickWarren @CraigyFerg

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

Day 27 of my 30-day X journey.

Today, I decided to do something different.

Instead of just posting a thought, I put three of the things I’ve been discovering about becoming into one place.

Still learning. Still becoming.

Which one speaks to you most?

#Thoughts #Purpose

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

Not all progress feels like progress.

Sometimes, it looks like simply refusing to go back to who you used to be.

That counts too.

#Thoughts #Growth

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

Some of the most important progress in your life may never be visible to anyone else.

A better mindset. A harder decision. One more attempt.

Keep going.

#Thoughts #Growth

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

Maybe progress isn't always becoming more.

Sometimes, it's becoming less of what you know you shouldn't be.

What are you slowly outgrowing?

#Thoughts #Growth

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

Your heart can be willing, but your pocket may not be ready.

Take your financial life seriously. Build capacity before the moment comes when you need it.

Are you preparing financially for the man you want to become?

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

Sometimes silence isn't the absence of communication.

It's communication without words.

What you don't say can reveal as much as what you do.
@Codie_Sanchez
#Thoughts #Communication

[Julius Divine Afonebe @TheJuliusDivine]

Sometimes, the wisest response is a pause.

Not because you have nothing to say, but because not everything you feel needs to become words.

Learn when to speak. Learn when to be silent.

#Thoughts #Communication @Codie_Sanchez