Hi Zee Please keep me anonymous. I'm a woman aged 29 and I've been staying with my baby daddy for the past 6 years. For the past two years my baby daddy and I have been sleeping in separate bedrooms and we don't talk at all. Our friends and family members do not know about this. If I move out I'll have to go back to the township because I can't afford to stay in Midrand on my salary only. Townships are too noisy and full of people who don't respect their neighbours. I'm no longer used to that life. My baby daddy has a new girlfriend that he brings to our place sometimes and he doesn't even care that I'm in the house. Whenever he takes our daughter to his mother's place I know he wants to bring his girlfriend over. Last month I found the girlfriend using the pots I bought to cook and I moered her. They went to the police station to lay charges against me. As I write this I'm out on bail. My question is why would a man hate the mother of his child to this point? I have never cheated on him. He's the one who got me sick several times and I started refusing to sleep with him raw. That's the reason he moved out of our bedroom two years ago.
Hi Zee please keep me anonymous. ๐ So me and my boyfriend were chiling in his room, just talking and stuff. ๐ So he brought up the topic that he wants a three sum and I was like WTF?? ๐ณ He begged me that we must do until I agreed. Okay so on friday he called me and told me that he has found someone and we could all meet up on the next day, I said okay. โบ So as I was chilling alone in my flat I was like no man this is some bullshit. ๐ก If he wants to f*ck another women while I watch them then I can also find a man so he could also watch me being f*cked by another man. ๐ So I called my colleague who has been after me for a long time, I told him we should meet and he agreed. I gave him my boyfriend's address. ๐คฃ So now the day came and I went to my boyfriend's place. I found my boyfriend with the other lady, ๐ so I told my boyfriend that before we can start I have a suprise for him and he was like okay. So my colleague arrived at my boyfriend's place and my boyfriend was confused on what's was going on. ๐ I told him that he will be joining us for tlof tlof. ๐๐ Yhoooo, all of the sudden my boyfriend got angry and chased away all of us, I was like WTF dude isn't this what you wanted? ๐ So we haven't talked since that day. And now I'm dating my colleague we are very much happy. ๐โค
Anyway, I wanted to ask if I was wrong for doing what I did? Thanks in advance. โค
Hi zee please keep me anonymous
Eish I left my baby daddy because of a Nigerian guy I met at a nightclub. He was so romantic and promised to take care of me and my child. I blocked my boyfriend everywhere and moved in with the Naija. He gave me money and took my son to a private school. He bought me designer labels and jewellery. We had twins in September last year. In May this year he disappeared without saying a word. His phone has been off ever since. He used to ask me to take loans on his behalf and he would pay the instalments. I am in debt now and can't afford my son's school fees without him. I can't afford to take care of the twins on my own. Stress is having me for breakfast, lunch and supper. I tried to reach out to my baby daddy but he wants nothing to do with me. My salary is not enough to cover all the debts I have.
โHi Zee please keep me anonymous, Iโm literally in tears as I write this๐๐Iโm not okay at all, yesterday my boyfriend went to groove with his three friends. They came to fetch him at his place. He told me he was gonna come before 1am because he didnโt plan to go out and all he wanted was to slend the weekend with me, okay he went out and he kept on checking up on me. One thing about my man? He always makes sure he checks up on me it doesnโt matter where he is. His last call was around 00:46๐ I tried to call him around 02am unfortunately his phone was off๐ญ they brought him in the morning at 6am and he looked very drunk๐ฅบit was my first time seeing my man like that, weโve been together for 8 years now. He barely even walked ๐ญ haybo Iโve never seen him like that I repeat. So I took him to bed, took off his shoes and clothes and Yooh bafethu only to notice that my man was raped๐ญhe had blood in his an#l and spโฌrms๐ I tried to wake him up, he started gasping ๐i took his car keys and rushed him to the hospital with one of our neighbors ๐๐ when we got there they told us that he was poisoned and yes he was rapโฌd by more than one. My heart stopped a few minutes ๐ญ I thought I was dreaming. 2 hrs later they said heโs gone๐ญ๐ญ
I lost my man. The father of my kids because of friends!! May your souls rest in peace love๐๐โ