One of the worst things you can do to yourself as a man abroad is to marry a Nigerian girl abroad. It’s a case of dog chop dog.
I avoid them like a plague here. They are good for NOTHING.
"I'll support him when he is financially down." 🤡🤡
It is your father that will be down.
There’s a serious attack on masculinity in Nigeria! 😭
I just saw a compilation of male outfits from a fashion show & Omo, it’s becoming alarming o!😩
Men in dresses, wigs, clutches….??😭
Expressive fashion they say!! But why does everything have to look feminine???
Men don’t have their own fashion ni?? 😭
At this point, na to dey pray: May our boys be boys & our girls be girls. 😭
We accept. We are broke.
Fix your bad character and stop looking for who will help you defend nonsense. Nobody tarnished your image, you did it yourselves. Foreigners are sharing first hand experiences with 9ja women, and instead of taking responsibility and being accountable, you're blabbing crap. 9ja men complained and you attacked them. Foreigners are complaining and you want 9ja men to defend you.
Why is it you they are dragging and not women of other nationalities?
Broke men will forever remain slaves to validation. Men from other countries are openly disrespecting Nigerian women, and instead of standing up for women from your own country, you’re busy licking their boots for approval. Have you forgotten you have a mother, sisters, female friends and well wishers who are women? The desperation to impress foreigners by tarnishing the image of Nigerian women is pathetic. Some of you would sell your own dignity just to watch Nigerian women get disrespected. Absolutely shameful.
There's a man in my church who carries almost the entire financial responsibility of his home. Rent, school fees, feeding, bills, children's needs, everything.
His wife has a thriving business and makes good money, but she has this strong belief that a man's job is to provide. She won't touch her business money to support the home.
This man will struggle, borrow money and exhaust himself just to make sure the family is comfortable, while his wife keeps her business income and uses it to look good.
I asked her one day, what if this man dies from the stress? She said she will continue from where he stopped
There's a man in my church who carries almost the entire financial responsibility of his home. Rent, school fees, feeding, bills, children's needs, everything.
His wife has a thriving business and makes good money, but she has this strong belief that a man's job is to provide. She won't touch her business money to support the home.
This man will struggle, borrow money and exhaust himself just to make sure the family is comfortable, while his wife keeps her business income and uses it to look good.
I asked her one day, what if this man dies from the stress? She said she will continue from where he stopped
Many people are married to their worst enemies but claim they married their best friend. Your actual best friend would not watch you kill yourself to pay bills when they can join their income with yours to sort bills.
Being best friend is not about gossip and wearing matching outfit. When it comes to responsibility, would they give all of themselves for the relationship?
I have said it a million times and I'll say it again.
Anyone who values money above their relationship with you, is not a good person for you. Fling them away.
A person who is willing and choosing to hoard their money rather than pouring it on you and the home you share together, is your enemy. There is no such thing as "I love you, but my money is my money. I cannot give it to a man."
The "I cannot" is already evidence they do not love you.