On Russian women, since this went viral:
I’ve dated a few Russian women, all over the world (Europe, Dubai, Bali)
> Russian women are not naive, they know men wanna fuck and know love is a game
> Russian women know that femininity is what men want:
- Look great
- Have good energy
- Don’t create drama
- Fuck you well
> In exchange, they know their worth:
- Pay for her things, many even expect allowances
- Don’t look at other women (they are protective af)
- Make time for her
The key difference vs. Western women, is that they are much clearer about what matters in relationships.
You don’t have to have the same hobbies or be looksmaxed.
Just a win-win value exchange
Once or twice a day I tidy up all the kids toys and put everything back in its place in the house.
Takes 5-10 minutes.
Prevents 90% of my wife’s bad moods.
Great cost/benefit analysis in my books.
One of the nicest things you can do for your wife is throw stuff out
I think a lot of people assume it "can't hurt" to keep something, but it can and it does! Too much stuff is actively bad for your wellbeing
After helping 45+ single men find relationships, I've noticed there's 3 patterns they all share.
All these guys had good jobs, were in shape and had a social life. But they couldn't figure out why they hadn't been on a date in months (sometimes years).
First, they all know what to do. They just can't do it.
They've read books on dating, watched YouTube videos, got advice from friends. "Logically" they know what to do. In reality, the moment comes and they freeze. They always resort back to the nice guy. Start overthinking.
Which means they never cross from friendly to romantic. All due to the gap between knowing, and doing.
Second, they wait. These are NOT lazy guys, but they put things off for ever changing reasons.
It starts off with waiting to finish school. Then they wait to get in shape. Then the promotion. Then for a house...
Years go by and they never move.
Thirdly, the wake-up call always comes. Eventually, a moment they never planned for shatters their excuses.
One of my clients nearly died in a car crash. One turned 36 and did the math on kids. Another watched someone the same age get married on Twitter and realized he'd been stalling for years.
That moment always comes. The only thing that changes is how much time you burn before it does.
Every one of them was hit with a choice. You will too.
Do you decide to change and meet someone now.
Or do you wait for life to decide for you.
Hinge is the best dating app in the world.
According to women, these are the top 10 opening lines:
1) "Sunday priorities: exercise, sleep, or aggressive mimosas?"
Took my son to his friend's birthday party yesterday.
Watched him tear after his friends laughing his head off.
I spent my late teens and early 20s chasing highs that wore off by morning.
A night out. A girl. Another drink...
Woke up every morning with less than I started with.
Now I'm standing in a garden watching my son hug his friend after playing pin the tail on the donkey.
My wife's hand in mine.
You won't find this guy complaining online:
- Skipped the couples dinner because he's the only single guy there
- "Forgets" to mention his birthday to friends
- Sat down alone for a hotel breakfast and felt the quiet sting he'd never admit to
- Sighs whenever a wedding invitation comes with a +1
- Has his career, gym, and finances handled, but hasn’t been on a date in a year
- Sees a girl he likes in a group and says nothing
They don't complain. That’s exactly why they end up being the best husbands and fathers.
They just haven’t been shown how to get there yet.
After helping 45+ single men find relationships, I've noticed there's 3 patterns they all share.
All these guys had good jobs, were in shape and had a social life. But they couldn't figure out why they hadn't been on a date in months (sometimes years).
First, they all know what to do. They just can't do it.
They've read books on dating, watched YouTube videos, got advice from friends. "Logically" they know what to do. In reality, the moment comes and they freeze. They always resort back to the nice guy. Start overthinking.
Which means they never cross from friendly to romantic. All due to the gap between knowing, and doing.
Second, they wait. These are NOT lazy guys, but they put things off for ever changing reasons.
It starts off with waiting to finish school. Then they wait to get in shape. Then the promotion. Then for a house...
Years go by and they never move.
Thirdly, the wake-up call always comes. Eventually, a moment they never planned for shatters their excuses.
One of my clients nearly died in a car crash. One turned 36 and did the math on kids. Another watched someone the same age get married on Twitter and realized he'd been stalling for years.
That moment always comes. The only thing that changes is how much time you burn before it does.
Every one of them was hit with a choice. You will too.
Do you decide to change and meet someone now.
Or do you wait for life to decide for you.
Married men live 10 years longer than single men. Earn 10-24% more. Are 135% more likely to report high life satisfaction. And have better sex.
Anti-marriage content is copium for men who can't attract a wife.
Boys in the 1950s implicitly understood the importance of looking good to find a wife.
Guys today won't shave in 2 weeks, throw on some cargo shorts and wonder why women don't look at them twice.
Looksmaxxing is just common sense taking to extremes.
Accents: South London
Oh how the youth have changed. These lads talk about the importance of having a good suit in the 1950s. Their overall demeanour speaks volumes as to how the working-class understood the importance of personal, and cultural maintenance.
"I spend about 30 bob a week on clothes".
'We Are The Lambeth Boys' ⏳️
Married men live 10 years longer than single men. Earn 10-24% more. Are 135% more likely to report high life satisfaction. And have better sex.
Anti-marriage content is copium for men who can't attract a wife.
Former client just sent me a picture from his engagement party.
14 months ago he was scrolling Twitter at 11PM thinking: "I should be able to figure this out myself."
His fiancée? He already knew her when we started working together:
Former client just sent me a picture from his engagement party.
14 months ago he was scrolling Twitter at 11PM thinking: "I should be able to figure this out myself."
His fiancée? He already knew her when we started working together: