āBut not the real kind of autism.ā āJust a touchā = he talks.
A kid can speak in full sentences and still not know how to make a friend, sit through a board game, or catch the joke everyone else got.
Thatās not lesser.Thatās a kid drowning quietly while everyone says heās fine
A diagnosis explains the behavior. It does not delete the skill or accountability.
Accommodate the disability AND teach the skill. š¦š¦š¦
The same label opens a different door depending on who holds it.
Un diagnóstico explica la conducta. No borra la habilidad o responsabilidad
ātell the teacher.ā
Come on. Sometimes she doesnāt see it. Sometimes telling makes it worse.
Assertiveness isnāt aggression ā itās identity out loud. Starts with letting your kid tell YOU no. As practice, not disrespect.
A kid who canāt disagree at home freezesš¦
Neurodivergence doesnāt look like one thing.
One kid canāt get the words out. Another says all the right words and still eats lunch alone.Thereās no āreally autisticā and ānot really.ā Itās a spectrum.
Support needs are everywhere on it.Stop asking whatās wrong. Ask what helps.
Your kid will eventually say something biased out loud. All kids do. The next ten seconds decide whether you stay their trusted source or the playground takes the job.
Flat face. Curious question. Correct the idea, not the kid.
Thatās the intervention. š¦
My kid was crying & another. Black kid on the playground got to him first. Thatās not a race story. Thatās a belonging story. Kids sort by sameness ā skin, gender, language, who likes dinosaursābecause belonging is the actual need.Steer where it points. Donāt shame the instinct.
Nolan Wellsā mother said this is not how she wanted the world to meet her son. Every POC parent I know is having heavier conversations with their kids this week belonging, being the only one, what to do when the room goes quiet. If youāre one of them having hard talks ā¤ļø
He can ā¤ļø his book AND his Rap Snacks. Both. Always both. The kids who handle bullying best not the toughest theyāre the most rooted. Back-to-school prep is identity not armor-plating. When a kidās sense of self isnāt up for debate, someone elseās opinion lands diff.š¦@SnoopDogg
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My own mom public-shamed me for holding a boundary with my kid. Held it anyway. Hard moments are healthy development, not proof of damage. That discomfort you feel correcting your kid in public? Itās the price of raising a safe human. Worth it. š¦feature from live on TT!
Everyone prescribes "positive interactions." Nobody defines them. Definition + Harvard's serve-and-return + Fisher's FIND program and ideas for the "fine" kid.
Todos recetan "interacciones positivas." Nadie las define. AquĆ sĆ. Guide in bio
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If summer is eating your budget and your patience, read slide 3 twice. The stuff that shapes your kid was never for sale. Save this for the next āIām not doing enoughā spiral. š¦
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Low-demand parenting isnāt lazy. Itās choosing where your kidās limited coping budget gets spent so the boundaries that matter stay standing. Not āno rulesā ā strategic ones. Save this for the next person who calls it lazy. š¦La baja demanda no es pereza. Es estrategia. GuĆ”rdalo.
Not quite. Walking away ā silent treatment. Silent treatment = punitive, no explanation, no time limit, no repair. Regulated pause = explanation given, intent to return, repair after. Body takes 20 min to baseline after flooding. Stepping away IS the skill. š¦
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