I kinda hate that inclusivity has come full circle to the point it's unintentionally dehumanizing.
And if you don't get what I mean, I dare you to find any product on any market made for "humans with penises/testes/prostrates"
benci banget denger "gapapa, dosanya lagi dikurangin/dihapuskan" kalo ada orang sakit parah sampe harus dirawat/operasi. that person is suffering dan yg ada di pikiran lu cuma dosa orang lain. urus dosa lu sendiri monyet
temuan Pope di The Feminization of Sports Fandom: perempuan sering dianggep “suspect fans” tdk otentik & dipaksa ngebuktiin pengetahuannya lebih dr laki2. jdi kalo lu pake statement “kaum rahim anget”, lu lgi mengulang gendered gatekeeping yg udh lama dikaji sosiologi olahraga
“Gue nggak mendukung kekerasan.”
Oh, hell, you fucking do. You're there building the pyramid. You're there laying the bricks. Don't pretend you're opposed to the top while helping build the foundation.
and if I say this is how we decenter marriage: by accepting family and care structures that are not built around romantic/hetero/sexual relationships and striving to enable legal rights + benefit sharing beyond marriage