TK

to help even just one life breathe easier, that is to have succeeded

[TK @Thirdpillar]

say nothing - very difficult (f) leave it to God; latter works for me.

[TK @Thirdpillar]

As u go thru life u have 6 choices: (a) just say "charming" (b) tit-4-tat (c) sulk, but no-one else cares (d) accept blame, even thou ...