TiffanyStarlight

⭐️One of a kind that doesn't exist :P
⭐️Highly creative person
⭐️Into anything that involves being a better hooman

[TiffanyStarlight @TiffStarlight]

It's been awhile. I'm not on here much. A lot has changed. Too much to say in a "tweet" but...

I'm happy that I finally started to be myself. I'm happy that I am learning to understand & accept myself. I'm happy that I am not letting others keep me from that, no matter what. <3

[🐾🐺Daxx🐺🐾 @DaxxFluff]

I hate to do this, but. since the loss of my partner, I currently lost everything, I'm losing my home in the next few days and I need to find a place for my dogs... as much as this hurts... I'm asking for donations so the place that I've found take them. This will cover expenses

[TiffanyStarlight @TiffStarlight]

It's the kind people that are strong, that will fight for others when no one else will, that will fight for themselves because no else will. It's the "strong" that were "broken" first and *constantly* so, and that's why we are there for others that are now where we were before.

[TiffanyStarlight @TiffStarlight]

@ShannonVanPelt I would have made a clever lightbulb joke but 3 weeks later because it takes me that long sometimes to come up with the best comebacks.

[TiffanyStarlight @TiffStarlight]

@sheshn94 Oh snap xD

[TiffanyStarlight @TiffStarlight]

@sovereigntylea1 But that's a whole topic and not as black and white as can be described in one tweet reply.

[TiffanyStarlight @TiffStarlight]

@sovereigntylea1 I would imagine that's due to their experiences with others pushing "toxic positivity" & so they assume it's an act to invalidate their experiences. At least, I've been on that side of the coin. It's not saying that it wasn't awful, it's a choice to grow, & an individual choice.

[ewokfuzzybutts @ewokfuzzybutts]

Never made one of these before but here goes. Retweets help and are appreciated thank you <3

https://t.co/426IOjEtQV

[Mental Health MATTers @sovereigntylea1]

You must get uncomfortable to change.

You will only change once the pain of your current situations is greater than the discomfort of the unknown.

Even a terrible situation is "better" than the unknown to so many people.

We can adjust to almost any situation.

Humans are the ultimate adaptation machine.

If you do one specific exercise long enough it will be less effective because you adjust, adapt and your body gets tougher to deal with the work.

So a "burning building" can be less scary than a new house that you don't know.

We will accept misery because it is what we know and are "comfortable" with.

If you are stuck. I wish you a rock bottom that doesn't crush you so you can be ready to move on.

Are you sick of being sick? Be brave. It is worth it.

You will know when your ready to try anything to get better.

Be well, Matt

[TiffanyStarlight @TiffStarlight]

@sovereigntylea1 I could not have said this better myself. So many times in my life I have had something "impactful" happen that made me move.

[TiffanyStarlight @TiffStarlight]

@Jolly_Jess_Cos Thanks so much!

[TiffanyStarlight @TiffStarlight]

@sovereigntylea1 Thank you :)

[TiffanyStarlight @TiffStarlight]

@sovereigntylea1 *is still looking for affordable trauma therapy online with my insurance*

But, thank you for the dejavu. <3

[Mental Health MATTers @sovereigntylea1]

TLDR

Learned Helplessness

Trauma causes people's brains to be rewired. They subconsciously don't believe it's possible to make any changes in their lives.

We should have massive compassion for their bad luck.

They aren't lazy. They need help. We should teach & support them.

[Mental Health MATTers @sovereigntylea1]

If love is not unconditional it is manipulation.

[Inna Vjuzhanina 🇺🇦 @InnaVjuzhanina]

⚠️ Friends, I need a hand reporting this fella trying to sell my Joel piece.

The genius didn't even bother removing my watermark and signature 🤦‍♀️

[TiffanyStarlight @TiffStarlight]

@Nidarosis wait, why is this a thing? where?