idk how to tell ppl that petermj dont come from "out of nowhere" in the mcu, hoco has michelle say "i'm not obsessed with [peter]" but knows too much about him, so after liz moves away at the end of the movie, it makes sense that ffh starts with peter noting "i think mj (1/3)
@pinkbianism that the butch identity is very nuanced and complex and you don't need to pass as a man or fit one specific standard of masculinity to identify as butch as long as you have a masculine gender identity and expression, and sometimes queer masculinity can seem "effeminate"