being attractive but not photogenic is a very specific kind of suffering because i know what i look like in real life and my camera keeps lying on my name
it’s super hard getting a divorced. Some court cases go on for 8 - 12 years even. It’s exhausting. I think feminists should be pushing for an overhaul of the system instead. Marrying without legal rights is dangerous especially because you’re dealing with a 🇳🇬 man in a 🇳🇬 system.
@wisingman Not everyone values the same things, and those ‘intentional wives’ may lack something the current wife has.
I was once told, “ Cindy, relax. Your value is not in your labor. Just be here with me.”
If performative-ness worked, most of our mothers would have happier marriages.
Carry the belle yourself rubbish.
You people will treat pregnant women like shit, insult your post partum wife, cheat because her body changed and you’re surprised no woman wants to do it?
All the new inventions and new records ( building of space ships and going to space) working government systems. wey men dey do for US, China, Germany and Japan, you do ever see Nigerian man do am😂😂
Na watin society allow go thrive.
Guys, when you are in a long-term relationship with a good woman, try everything you can to improve her. I don’t just mean with material things. Remember: “I even bought her IPhone and “Bone Straight” is for weak and inferior men. Yes, you will do those but they shouldn’t be your claim to fame.
Improve her professionally, academically (if she wants) and financially, and give her security. You will benefit from it more than you think.
I am Ezemmuo. I know things.
My husband’s last presentation, they used him to sweep the entire ground of FMC, the consultants dealt with him 🤣🤣🤣. He didn’t get one question correct even though he spent weeks preparing. Oga came home with a sullen face and almost refused to eat. He woke up twice at night just to tap me to say
“babe they did not even reason that I’m a married man with children”
For one week straight, he’ll randomly stop whatever he was doing, stare into the sky for a few seconds, then shake his head and scream “chai!”