i saw a post today that said, "when you finally learn your place in people's lives, your feelings won't get hurt" and i swear that's the truth and one of the most important life lesson you will learn. whether it's family, friends, or whoever
you can’t hurt people and then expect them to be kind or be forgiving towards you. you can’t inflict them pain and then tell them to just forget it and move on. u are in no position to tell them what to do with their emotions, especially if u are the reason why they’re sufferring