Tom DaThrone

what the world hid from you on purpose: the secret path to self-mastery

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"just do more" is a trap (and you're already in it)

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your ego needs to be a stable narrative across changing states

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when you treat yourself as ONE solid entity

you experience guilt, shame, overwhelm, and confusion

because you be viewing a structural shift in subpersonalities as a personal moral failure or a lack of will power

you are like a pizza my dude (infinite dynamic slices)

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⚪️ the WHITE magician seeks to gain control over himself

⚫️ the BLACK magician seeks to obtain control over others

most people are neither white nor black magicians

they're mixtures of both tendencies

it's not GOOD vs EVIL but how consciously they relate to those tendencies?

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fully feel your negative emotions without escaping to your head so that they FINALLY become metabolized

only when emotions (energies in motion) are metabolized they can be consciously transformed

that's how you actually update your nervous system's predictions firing

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the cheat code for mastering YOUR LUST is integrating the lover archetype

so that you start enjoying showing love non verbally without needing it to be reciprocated and making that felt experience complete in and of itself

i wanna fuck but i don’t

figure that one out bitch

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you were lied to because the goal was NEVER to dissolve the ego

it was to dethrone it so it becomes a tool at the service of the Self

that's individuation

because dissolving your ego without integration = shadow inflation AT SCALE

that's why ego death is bullshit

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ego inflation = the small part of you crowding out the rest

and it feels like growth but it isn't

because the shadow doesn't ask for your permission

IT DETONATES and leaves you confused as fuck

where your control at, huh?

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you look SO CONFUSED 😭

because you assume your identity is singular and static

but your identity is dynamic and you cannot be the SAME YOU 24/7

what’s static about you is THE CENTER that switches between modes (not the modes themselves)

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genuine assumption feels like boredom, not excitement

there’s no high emotional charge when an assumption feels true to you

it just is what it is… not a big deal whatsoever

as within so without

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law of assumption works thru state
(not declaration)

the state of genuine assumption has zero inflation because there’s nothing to prove

ego inflation is evidence that the assumption hasn’t truly landed

because you’re still performing the belief

which means you don’t have it

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julius caesar had a slave whose job was to whisper in his ear throughout the day that he is a mortal and not a god over other people

power corrupts and then the pride comes

and it always comes before the fall so you better be ready

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violating the unwritten laws of social exchange will make civilians hate you

simply because they play by the rules they are not conscious of

the rules that were imposed onto them

that's all they know

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dissolving the ego is a death sentence in the modern world

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only death is static

the principle of life is change

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the ego is the story that you build to survive your fears

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when i see fat people i immediately think it must suck to be them

but honestly, sitting down as a fat person must be cozy as fuck

standing/walking must be exhausting for the skeleton tho

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you are not anxious but you are feeling anxious

and you don't have anxiety but anxiety has you

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perfectionism is not a pursuit of excellence

but a shield against the agony of exposure triggered by the shame wound

and yeah, perfectionism makes failure guaranteed

failure/self-sabotage → guilt → shame → perfectionism → failure/self-sabotage

and then the loop restarts

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if i was a female i'd be a hoe

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my ego has hijacked my wallet again