@stygianr Life is what it is. If you like him give him a chance, just be careful and get your whoop band. I’ve heard some of the best love stories with worst beginnings then this.
I think many gay guys don’t actually want sex all the time. Sometimes we just open the apps because we’re craving human connection. Deep down, we just want someone to cuddle with, watch a movie, talk until we fall asleep, hold hands, and feel safe in someone’s arms for a while.