@thunkersnig@emberstoendure@SaycheeseDGTL it’s actually not just food. white “masters” were referred to as crackers because they’d “crack their whips.” so while it could be offensive or used in a derogative manner, i don’t think it’s as offensive as the N word. some black people i know don’t even use it.
@jiggyjayy2@tahjaserene i mean it’s been since the bane of existence. men protectors, hunters, leaders. me personally, i’m not gonna stay with a man i don’t choose. but i would want to know that he chooses me and WANTS that next step. i hope that makes sense.