ive never understood the concept of just asking someone out, youre supposed to become friends and let romantic feelings develop over the course of several months or years
the secondhand embarrassment you get when you tell everyone that maybe you’ve finally found someone who gives a fuck about you and accepts you for who you are, only for them to switch up and treat you like you simply don’t exist in their world, the way they do in yours.
when you realize you actually cannot be in a relationship because you are too obsessive and insane and your mood depends on their behaviour towards you