This is definitely cheating at braiding. We sit for hours to braid meanwhile some people achieve the same result with crochet. 😩 👏🏽
Credit: forevercryssy
I highly recommend you find yourself a clingy (healthy) lovey dovey partner who's super excited about you. Life is too short to spend it with someone who act like showing love is a chore.
A cheating man is bad enough. But you know what's even worse? A man who pretends to be good, but in reality is a pathological liar, a lustful manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim...
I cannot stress enough how important it is to speak up for yourself when someone is crossing your boundaries or dismissing your feelings. You are your biggest advocate. No one else can read your mind or feel what you feel.
Let's normalize telling people, "It seems you don't have the capacity to love me in the ways I want and need, so let's not continue this", and leave it at that.
NEVER TRUST A MAN who gets upset over your reactions to his actions! You got mad because of what he did, and now he's mad because you reacted. Then he tries to gaslight you by saying you're always arguing or creating negativity. No, that's MANIPULATION. That's narcissistic behaviour. You don't get to hurt people and then play the VICTIM when they call you out.
This is a classic tactic, and it's toxic. He's deflecting accountability for his actions and shifting the blame onto you. He's trying to make you question your own emotions, your own sanity. But here's the thing: your feelings are valid. Your reactions are valid. If he's hurt you, it's normal to feel upset, angry, or hurt. And if he's trying to gaslight you into thinking you're overreacting or being dramatic, that's a huge red flag. Own your emotions, own your reactions, and don't let anyone make you feel guilty for feeling. You're not the one who's wrong here he's the one who messed up, and he's trying to cover it up. Call it out, and don't back down.
#narcissists #toxicbehaviour