tolerating always turns into resentment. at first, you call it patience, then love. but what it really is, is self abandonment. every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score. eventually, the bill comes due.
I love the theory that depression is the soul's way of rejecting the life you're forcing yourself to live. your spirit shuts down when you're too far from your purpose, people or path
@KingDan21991178@EN0CX Not at all! My point is you can’t treat someone better than you are willing to treat yourself. She doesn’t believe she deserves better, how do we expect her to consider others feelings when she hadn’t even considered her own?
never take being mobile for granted. pick up some weights, ride your bike, take a walk, go for a run. be kind to your body by taking care of it while you can.
All roads lead you back to yourself;
the standards you ignored.
the boundaries you softened.
the intuition you doubted.
Life will keep repeating lessons until you listen.
We cannot have sustainable energy because it threatens the oil industry. We cannot have healthcare because it threatens insurance. We cannot have peace because it threatens the weapons industry. Capitalism built a system where doing the right thing is treated like bad business.
my life changed the moment an old mentor told me this:
“stopping your worst habit would change your life way faster than starting your best habit…
fix the leak before filling the bucket.”