✨Tspoon✨

|NY•🌆 |•♈️ | 🪬•💫 -Here to make a difference in the world-🖤 Earth angel 🤍

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

Pets are life savers. sometimes all you need is a little souł that follows you around just to remind you you’re not alone

[Joy Joy @Joyoky1]

I don’t think people realize how beneficial being alone for a while is. Taking time off to reconnect with yourself, figure out what you want, and learn to love your own company is crucial. Growth happens when you are truly content without needing anyone else.

[✨Tspoon✨ @Tspoonoffun]

It’s me 🤍🖤

[✨Tspoon✨ @Tspoonoffun]

Hey I’m alive 👋🏽🙂

[✨Tspoon✨ @Tspoonoffun]

Twitter doesn’t fulfill me anymore

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

my therapist told me, "stop assuming people are mad at you. Stop attempting to read people's minds. stop trying to manage the thoughts and emotions of others. let people be in charge of themselves. if they have something to say to you they will and if they don't it is their responsibility not yours. overthinking kills happiness" and that hit me like a brick.

[Kia 🧸ྀི @xevekiah]

My girl best friend told her boyfriend something that lowkey changed how I see relationships.
She said, “I don’t want obedience. I want consideration. I shouldn’t have to beg you to think about how your actions affect me.”
She told him, “You’re allowed to have friends. You’re allowed to go out. You’re allowed to live your life. But if you constantly put yourself in situations that you know would hurt me, that’s not freedom. That’s you choosing yourself over us.”
Then she said something that hit:
“If I have to keep explaining why something disrespects me, it’s not confusion. It’s comfort. You’re comfortable knowing I’ll stay.”
And whew.
She wasn’t yelling. She wasn’t threatening to leave. She was calm. Grounded. Clear.
She told him, “I won’t control you. But I will control what I tolerate. And if I start feeling small in a relationship that’s supposed to feel safe, I’ll remove myself. Not to punish you. To protect me.”
That’s what emotional maturity sounds like.
Not “do what I say.”
But “I see the red flag. I told you it’s red. If you keep walking past it, I’m not dragging you back.”

[• @WordsCocoon]

february 17, tuesday...

[✨Tspoon✨ @Tspoonoffun]

Treated myself this Valentine’s Day 💌✨

[small waist, pretty face 🫦 @oddettem]

I saw a TikTok about a girl saying how she doesn't stay mad for long because either she's going to figure it out, or there's nothing that can be done about it. and as simple as that sounds is as simple as it is really.

[✨Tspoon✨ @Tspoonoffun]

It’s February, please be gentle to yourself this month

[✨Tspoon✨ @Tspoonoffun]

Just tryna leave a positive impact on people’s lives

[✨Tspoon✨ @Tspoonoffun]

I love this cat

[ً @prinkasusa]

Humans shouldn't always stay at home, even if you have nothing to do. Because staying at home for too long makes the brain become dull and leads to overthinking. You'll have more negative emotions. Psychology calls this state mental rumination. Most of the time, people who stay at home long term are not physically lazy - but mentally exhausted. You increasingly do not want to go out or see people. Even going to the supermarket downstairs to buy a bottle of water feels troublesome. You start to get used to being in a daze alone, scrolling through your phone and staying up late. Then you repeatedly struggle with yourself in an empty room. You think you're resting. But in fact, you're quietly draining the vitality of life. Your brain needs stimulation. Movement. Connection. Without it, your thoughts turn inward and spiral. The longer you isolate, the harder it becomes to break the pattern.

[✨Tspoon✨ @Tspoonoffun]

Yahhhh idunno Twitter just doesn’t hit for me

[✨Tspoon✨ @Tspoonoffun]

I pray for a soft, gentle love

[✨Tspoon✨ @Tspoonoffun]

Healing ain’t for the weakkk

[✨Tspoon✨ @Tspoonoffun]

❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[✨Tspoon✨ @Tspoonoffun]

Nice little pump from my workout- can’t tell if it was upper or lower focused though 🤪👀