i miss my parents
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i go home
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three days 'visitor' treatment
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clashes begin
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everything becomes a fight
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realise why i wanted to leave the place
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i leave home
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carefree days
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i miss my parents
A person doesn’t have to only drain you with arguments & fights. They can drain you with lack of communication, lack of trust, lack of empathy, lack of apologizing, lack of acknowledgment & lack of fulfilling your love language.
I love men that are aware of how emotional women can be, a man that is soft and gentle towards you emotionally, gives you reassurance without having to make you feel any guilt for overthinking, those men are top tier.
WOMAN TO WOMAN: Please stop sending men long paragraphs after they hurt you.
They don't care and nothing you say will guilt trip them into caring. Take your dignity and go.
please fall in love with someone who genuinely wants you, patiently waits for your messages, understands you even in your madness, talks to you after a fight. The right person sees the mess and moods but still chooses you.