Clarifying things so the other person doesn't overthink is also a form of emotional responsibility. Reassurance is a love language that doesn't get talked about enough.
i texted her, "how was your day today?" and she sent me a 7 minute voice note telling me everything..
and that basically sums up the kind of person i want by my side. stop normalizing disinterest.
When a woman feels anxious about her partner's female friends, late nights, or phone habits, it is immediately validated as "women's intuition" and he is told to respect her boundaries. But the exact second a man expresses discomfort about her entertaining certain male orbiters or moving recklessly, he is immediately gaslit, labeled "deeply insecure," and accused of trying to control her.