Arriety

Ambivert. Feminist. Atheist.
Travel, Music, books, diy's are my passion.
Calvin & Hobbes buff.
Blogger(Rambler) in coma.
Views are personal.

[Arriety @umanation]

The organisers of @ilaiyaraaja concert messed up @arrahman concert too back in 2023. Same to the same company dhaane- ACTC?!

[Jojjabijjan  Sreenivas || ஸ்ரீநிவாஸ் @i_sreenivas]

Ilaiyaraaja should stop platforming this singer who got called out by multiple women including young girls.

ARR seemed to have distanced himself from this person but he still gets to sing at all the Ilaiyaraaja concerts.

[Pooja Prasanna @PoojaPrasanna4]

Since TN’s debt is in focus after CM Vijay’s speech, I want to plug a portion of my show Let Me Explain where I talked about why taking debt figure alone is a fallacy

[⋆⁺₊⋆ jessica ☾ ⋆⁺₊⋆ 🍉 @ItsMrsRabbitToU]

The only reason women have any rights is because WOMEN got loud and difficult and demanded those rights. The next time a man tells you “men gave you rights” tell him to stfu and read a history book.

[stargazer @mnali]

Marital rape isn’t a lesser version of stranger rape. It’s worse. The person you trusted most, in the home you can’t leave, in the bed you share. A stranger breaks a rule. A spouse breaks you. There’s no safe place to run to when the danger sleeps next to you.

[𝙺🍓 @ratingbiryani]

The scariest part of the Vijay-Trisha memes and jokes is that they are effectively normalizing extramarital affairs and cheating on one's wife.

[Pavitra🍉 @pavitrash_]

Witnessing the fall of Mamata, Pinarayi, and Stalin, easily three of the strongest anti-BJP voices in India, should make all of us very, very concerned. The impending doom of saffron fascism looms over all of us. Scary times ahead.

[𝓜𝓾𝓼𝓱𝓻𝓸𝓸𝓶 @phoolanndevvi]

Once again a man cheating publicly on his wife humiliating her will never face consequences he won't get hate instead he will be rewarded
South Indian's and their love for home wreckers (MGR,Pawan Kalyan,Vijay)

[ً @prinkasusa]

“Women can't be good world leaders”

Meanwhile men who have been leading the world:
- Pedophiles
- R@pist
- Killers
- Cannibals
- Abusers

Yeah exactly, Women don't have such leadership qualities.

[jezz @JezziiB]

Patriarchy is a system where women are expected to:
– Raise men
– Forgive men
– Fix men
– And still be blamed for men’s behavior

[Janani Sekar @MissBrownClumsy]

@tncpim @beemji It's time @beemji that you take a look at Neelam members, back then when the allegation arose Mathur Sathya was still in Neelam.

[Maryam @hell_line0]

male loneliness epidemic = men are having a harder time manipulating women..

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

There is no gender war. Men have been abusive, domineering and controlling for generations; and women are no longer tolerating it. Period.

[Kelly @broadwaybabyto]

“Not all men”

Just 80 men in a small region of France who chose to rape Gisele Pelicot.

Just 70,000 men in a Telegram group rape chat discussing how to drug and rape their own moms, sisters and wives.

Just these men having a “pro rape meet up”.

[Arriety @umanation]

THIS

[Madelaine Hanson @MadelaineLucyH]

Young women now are the first large ever cohort raised with evidence of their abilities.

They have the grades.
They outperform boys academically in most countries.
They navigate emotional complexity earlier and more fluently.
They are socially, linguistically, and cognitively competent in ways that are measured and documented.

So when a young man reacts with surprise, hostility, or wounded ego, it is not just sexist, it is irrational. It makes zero sense. It can only be based in arrogance. And that is what makes it infuriating.

Because the message young women receive now is not “you are not capable”. It is “you are capable, but please pretend you aren’t, because my identity depends on being exceptional by default, be a nice girl and give up your space for a man who will be upset if he doesn’t achieve this”.

That creates a specific kind of psychological whiplash: be confident, but not threatening, be intelligent, but don’t correct, be competent, but act grateful, be ambitious, but cushion male pride.

And when a man feels emasculated by female competence, the burden is quietly placed on the woman to manage his emotions about a reality she did not create. How he feels lonely, he feels useless, he feels unwanted, he feels irrelevant. It is still always about him.

Because it was never about a woman being unable to do something. It was about her oppression and passivity being utilised to falsify and inflate masculine sense of purpose and pride.

[Madelaine Hanson @MadelaineLucyH]

Young women now are the first large ever cohort raised with evidence of their abilities.

They have the grades.
They outperform boys academically in most countries.
They navigate emotional complexity earlier and more fluently.
They are socially, linguistically, and cognitively competent in ways that are measured and documented.

So when a young man reacts with surprise, hostility, or wounded ego, it is not just sexist, it is irrational. It makes zero sense. It can only be based in arrogance. And that is what makes it infuriating.

Because the message young women receive now is not “you are not capable”. It is “you are capable, but please pretend you aren’t, because my identity depends on being exceptional by default, be a nice girl and give up your space for a man who will be upset if he doesn’t achieve this”.

That creates a specific kind of psychological whiplash: be confident, but not threatening, be intelligent, but don’t correct, be competent, but act grateful, be ambitious, but cushion male pride.

And when a man feels emasculated by female competence, the burden is quietly placed on the woman to manage his emotions about a reality she did not create. How he feels lonely, he feels useless, he feels unwanted, he feels irrelevant. It is still always about him.

Because it was never about a woman being unable to do something. It was about her oppression and passivity being utilised to falsify and inflate masculine sense of purpose and pride.

[💗 @ma1ybe]

Turns out women get more autoimmune diseases from suppressed anger and trauma...so basically every time you don't flip a table, your immune system takes a hit. Moral of the story? Throw the fucking chair, girl. It's preventative medicine

[Meow @meow_meow14]

Every woman must flip that table once in life!

[ً @prinkasusa]

men are the real GOLD DIGGERS.
they expect your BODY.
they expect you to play MAID.
to COOK, to CLEAN, to RAISE their kids.
they expect you to PAMPER fragile egos and carry all the EMOTIONAL LABOR... while holding down a JOB and still SPLITTING THE BILLS