There were only 2 people that showed up to support me when my dad died. Maya and Angel. They are both dead now and I’m just wondering when I will get a break?
Every single year since 2023 I have lost someone super close to me.
I love people with ADHD because they never actually forget anything. You just have to say the right words to activate them like a sleeper cell and then they awaken with all of the knowledge on a very niche subject they studied for 3 months straight 6 years ago.
Autism: I need clear instructions.
ADHD: I need short instructions.
AuDHD: Make it clear, make it short, make it interesting and don’t talk to me while I read it.
My daughter called me from a house party.
"Hey Mom, can we order a pepperoni pizza?"
We had already eaten dinner.
That’s the code.
"Pepperoni" means: Come get me immediately.
"Cheese" means: Call me back in 5 minutes with an excuse.
"Vegetable" means: I’m okay, just checking in.
She said "Pepperoni."
I didn't ask questions. I didn't ask who was there. I just drove.
She got in the car. "They started taking pills," she whispered.
We drove home in silence.
Codes work because they bypass the panic. Give them a script so they don't have to improvise safety.
Just yesterday, I overheard grandma telling my Mom:
"If your daughter asks why you're putting on makeup, tell her it's to look fancy... not to look pretty. Sometimes she'll want to be fancy. but she's always beautiful.
Damnn, ladies, you all need to see this...
Marriage only benefits a woman when the man is truly capable of leading, providing, and protecting. Otherwise she's just adding responsibilities to a life she already manages alone.
Sis, it’s time to finally stop carrying the weight of romantic connections that only drain your energy, disrupt your peace and dis-regulate your nervous system. Letting go can often feel impossible because there’s a lot of inner work that still needs to be done.
So, here are some questions to help you get started. I promise, honestly answering them will change everything:
It’s one thing to have friends who love you. It’s another to have friends who love you AND dream big with you. Friends who operate from a mindset of abundance, not scarcity. Friends who feed your big dreams instead of shutting them down. Friends you can grow with! It’s important.
Hardest pill to swallow is realizing people do not care. They will hurt you and go on with their lives, not even slightly affected by what they did or how you feel, whether it’s friendships, relationships, or family.
No one teaches you how to admit you might be addicted to the hope of someone. Nor how to stop being loyal to someone who isn’t emotionally equipped to receive what you’re offering. Some part of you knows that. Let me explain….
I’m at point in my life where I am so unhappy and I don’t know how to fix it. I keep asking God “why me?”. I can’t even look at myself positively because I can’t look beyond what I’m feeling lately. 💔