What if I genuinely just like doing a lot of stuff for others without expecting anything in return? ๐
I get it now, but I hate it when people assume there's a catch with me being a passionate extrovert just because I have a shitload of energy with a 'set and forget' attitude
Itโs crazy how I just said โwhile being excessively nice does make you likable, it can send signals that are counterproductive to forming intimate companionship bondsโ and a lot of people read โif youโre nice neurotypicals will hate you and kill you with a gunโ ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ