Behavioural Change: A living thread on behavioural change — tiny actions, steady shifts, and the science of becoming. 🧵👇
Quotes, tools, diagrams, and reflections will live here.
"The four Laws of Behaviour change are a simple set of rules we can use to build better habits. They are 1) Make it obvious, 2) Make it attractive, 3) Make it easy, and 4) Make it satisfying." - James Clear
Behavioural Change: A living thread on behavioural change — tiny actions, steady shifts, and the science of becoming. 🧵👇
Quotes, tools, diagrams, and reflections will live here.
"Whenever you face a problem, your brain begins to automate the process of solving it. Your habits are just a series of automatic solutions that solve the problems and stresses you face regularly." - James Clear
"There are three levels of change: outcome change, process change, and identity change. The most effective way to change your habits is to focus not on what you want to achieve, but on who you wish to become."
"Breakthrough moments are often the result of many previous actions, which build up the potential required to unleash a major change. Habits often appear to make no difference until you cross a critical threshold and unlock a new level of performance." - James Clear
"It's so easy to overestimate the importance of one defining moment and underestimate the value of making small improvements on a daily basis. Too often, we convince ourselves that massive success requires massive actions." - James Clear (Atomic Habit)
Cal Newport suggests burnout often comes from thinking about work more than doing it.
Endless messages and coordination keep the mind busy, but the work shallow—leaving you tired, yet strangely unaccomplished.
How to Reduce the Risk of Affairs (aka: ask these questions before someone slides into anyone’s DMs):
9. “What I wish I could change about you and sex is…”
Handle with care. Tone matters. But silence is how resentment does push-ups.
#readingtheschooloflife
How to Reduce the Risk of Affairs (aka: the conversations couples avoid until it's too late):
8. “What I wish I could change about me and sex is…”
Translation: Self-awareness keeps intimacy alive.
#readingtheschooloflife
How to Reduce the Risk of Affairs (aka: ask these questions before someone slides into anyone’s DMs):
7. “Something I’m really inhibited about sexually is…”
Translation: Closeness grows where honesty lives.
#readingtheschooloflife
How to Reduce the Risk of Affairs (aka: the conversations couples avoid until it's too late):
6. “I’d love it if you understood that sometimes I want…”
Translation: Spoiler: it’s usually not that complicated. Space. Attention. A snack. You never know.
#readingtheschooloflife
How to Reduce the Risk of Affairs (aka: ask these questions before someone slides into anyone’s DMs):
5. “Where I’m unfulfilled in my life…”
Translation: Half the ‘affair problem’ is actually an existential crisis wearing perfume.
#readingtheschooloflife